Is anyone else having a challenge of doing things scriptural, verses what the secular world says. As in scripture says to put others before me whereas the secular world says put me first. I know what is right, just wondering if others may struggle with this. And how do we mourn the loss of ourselves without sinking into depression? How do we have joy in the midst of our trials and tribulations? It seems that as time passes my patience doesn't hurt as much, (must be experience), but still everyday I start wearing down where my patience begins to hurt a little and I am struggling not to let it be seen. I spend a lot of time in prayer and in the word, that is the only way I have the strength to do this, putting myself aside. But as a faulty human being, I am still in a struggle and seek like minded individuals who understand. May God bless all those who are loving their loved ones to the best of their ability.
I was wrong --- baby Faith's fever is 105.7.
So Thursday is what would have been my parents 63rd wedding anniversary. The second without my Dad. So last year on that day we just took my Mom sightseeing and to lunch and just tried to give her a good day. It seemed to keep her spirits up. But, always the week of she begins talking so much about my Dad. It makes me so sad that she must be feeling huge loss. I cannot imagine. So this Thursday we will again do the same. She seems pleased with the plans. She wants Chinese for lunch and to drive to a place we have grown fond of going, that she loves.
I just worry about her, and their anniversary, and his birthday, always stresses me out, because I just don't want her to feel sad. And I always have to fight feeling sad myself, and hold up for her sake. Anyway, please keep my Mom in your prayers, that she will be comforted on her saddest days.
Psalms 94:19
In the multitude of my thoughts within me thy comforts delight my soul.
Thank you for your prayers for baby Faith. I was gleeful when I brought over the 2 bakers' dozen of bagels. I was rewarded by Nicolette by a birthday gift of a lovely, Shakesperean-looking journal, writing pen, Panera gift card and birthday card.
Ephesians 5:1-2
Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
That ye might walk worthy of the Lord unto all pleasing, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God; Colossians 1:10
I am preparing for tomorrow. I am not sure if the things I do, I should be doing. But I always make my Mom a card and put a little decorations around, and then dinner and day road trip, for her anniversary, which my Dad isn't here to celebrate.
But I just do it because I want her to know, I know how special the day is, even if he is not here. So anyway, i don't know, I just try to make a sad day for her, into a joyful day as much as possible.
We had such bad tornadic weather today, and Thank the Lord it went on either side of us. And tomorrow will be more, so planning the road trip we aren't going to be able to go where planned but going to drive away from the storms to unfamiliar territory, may be nice to see new things.
Much love and prayers LL
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.”
Galatians 5:22
I wish you well with what you are planning for your mom's celebration on her wedding anniversary. I am sure even the little things and the big things that you do are so appreciated by your dear mom. I'll be thinking of you both.
I just love the Fruits of the Spirit and I chose to focus on LOVE here below especially with you in mind and doing what you do for your mom.
Love – Fruit of the Spirit Bible Verse
If I had to rank all of the above fruit of the Spirit in their order of possible importance, the quality of love would have to be #1. And this is why it may have been listed as the first fruit in the above Scripture verse.
Due to the extreme importance of just this one quality, I am going to do another article on this quality and title it “The Power of Love.”
This article will also be listed in the Sanctification Section of our site.
There are some very powerful and profound verses from the Bible on just this one quality alone, and it needs to have its own article to do it proper justice.
Here are some of the different definitions on what love is from the different Bible Dictionaries and Commentaries:
Unselfish, benevolent concern for another; brotherly concern; the object of brotherly concern or affection
The self-denying, self-sacrificing, Christ-like love which is the foundation of all other graces
Unselfish, loyal and benevolent concern for the well being of another
The high esteem which God has for His human children and the high regard which they, in turn, should have for Him and other people
To love, to have affection for someone; to like; to be a friend; the love of brothers for each other
Things went well today, Mom seemed to have a good time, although she has such a joy in her that she has a good time doing anything really. I have always wished I had that joy. The second fruit of the spirit. :) I assume she gets her joy in the Lord.
We went on a day trip, had lunch and dinner out and then came home. She was tuckered, as I am also. Thank you for thinking of us, and Praise the Lord all went well, even the sunshine came out today after such bad storms.
I want to see the article Power of Love.
God be with you LL
Mom woke up ill this morning, but she is feeling better thank the Lord. I am so exhausted, and this week has wore me out. But, yet it's amazing the graciousness of God, in that he helps us run when we are weary.
Isaiah 40:31
But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
Matthew 11:28-30
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
Psalm 55:22 Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken.
Psalm 34:19 The righteous person may have many troubles, but the LORD delivers him from them all;ive
Smeshque: I love the poetic book of Psalms and I hope that these 2 verses give you some measure of strength this evening. May you feel HIS presence.
And thank you for sharing those wonderful scriptures with me. The carer must be careful to rest when we can because although it is loving work, it is weary work, too.
Thank you for your Psalms. It does give me strength and comfort. I do love Psalms. And We read a Psalms every morning together as a family, and pray before getting going on our day.
I often go to Psalms in my hardest times and sad times. It is so refreshing to know that David felt the same way I do sometimes. And it is such comfort.
Mom is back to herself today, thank the Lord. Thank you for your concern.
Looking forward to being refreshed tomorrow, in worship to the King. Love and prayers for you dear one.
That is so pleasing that you read Psalms every morning.
Blessings to you, dearest smeshque.
I think you are doing a great job with that commandment. Never stop.
Much love and prayers for you and your family
Proverbs 27:9
Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel.
Good night for now.
Feel better.
The Lord God bless and keep you!
Thank you for the magnesium tip...I did not know that. Sharing is caring!
LL- Hope you are feeling better. I understand about the lady and its such a sad situation.
I was thinking today about a few posts on here when I first started the thread. A few were saying you gotta love yourself first in order to be able to love another. At first, I was being hard about that, in I just didn't get it. How can you love yourself first, and not be selfish. I was watering my plants in the greenhouse, when the Lord finally gave me understanding. If I don't love myself not above or more than others, but first, I can be of no good to another. I was starting to really get depresses and well just depressed. But, now I see how if I do not love me first in that I take care of me first, I am not offering the best to others, because I am not at my best to be able to do that. And on top of that resentment can begin to show up even though you love others so much or do your very best to keep them happy. The resentment isn't about them, its about me. If I would take some time to take care of me, I feel more refreshed to do a better job in loving others. I get it now, but have not yet figured out how to implement it. Hope all that makes sense.
Colossians 3:17
And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.
We need to take care if us in the same manner we do our LO, I am always asking about the above stuff, that was my light bulb moment.
I hope the magnesium helps, I order Now brand on Amazon. Magnesium citrate 200mg and it is far cheaper then any local source. I also read that mag oxide is the hardest for our bodies to absorb and that is what most lical places carry. Anything that ends with ate is easier to absorb. It also helps with sleep, added bonus.
God Bless every caregiver and give them strength today🤗
Your thought process of loving yourself first can be turned into "caring for your person first" because if you don't, you'll be good to no one. I could understand why that could undermine one's ability to move forward in care as the bible teaches us that "self love" is not desirable. I believe that can be turned into "we must nourish our bodies and feed our mind full of Godly thoughts and missions and rest our bodies, else we fall short of being a carer."
Thank you comments on the lady, Terrileigh (name reveal). I do hope and pray that she has the wherewithal to call 9-1-1 in an emergent situation.
Ll- Glad you are feeling better and thank you for your words on caring for self. I am trying, just now beginning to start figuring it out. As Real said, one day at a time. I am baby stepping it. Because I still feel tremendous guilt and selfish if I think of me. But again working on it.
May God bless you all!
“I will sing of the mercies of the LORD for ever: with my mouth will I make known thy faithfulness to all generations.”
Psalms 89:1
Smeshque, we are having a busy time coming up. Today I was with my daughter all day as she colored my much-needed hair color and then dinner out with her, her husband and friends. (My husband had to bowl this morning and this evening so was unable to come, though I got him carry-out of his fav liver and onions.). I just arrived home. Then Mother's Day, a High School Grad Party for our niece, over 1 hour drive (2 hours total). Then our grandson will have his 18th Birthday and High School grad party combined. A lot of upcoming dr appts and my husband just told me he needs cataract surgery in June.
2 Timothy 1:7
"For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control."
“By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.”
John 13:35
Lamentations 3:22-23 ESV “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.
When we fail in our flesh, we have His promises and know that one day we will be perfect, as out Father in Heaven is perfect. We are carnal and make mistakes, thankfully He knows our hearts and has made a way for us.
Happy Mother's Day to all you moms. May God bless you all for all you do. Your conversation is encouraging. Thank you.
Please let me know how the magnesium works. I am curious if others get the relief I do. HUGS🤗