Does your Cat (or any pet) misbehave since caregiving your loved one?
Have you been required to take care of your loved one's pet after they have passed? Does your pet have cute antics that entertain your loved one?
And finally, has the cat or dog transferred their loyalty to your Mother?
He's probably terrified you're going to take him Out There again. Have all your cats been so well socialised?!
My mother had a good traveller cat called Willow, a Russian Blue who went everywhere with her in the days when she was young and fancy-free and living alone in London. But by and large cats are strictly territorial and solitary by preference. Getting them used to company early on is a good thing, of course, but didn't he find your friend's house a bit of a lion's den???
Overgrooming, it's true, can also be a sign of stress - I'd try a special cardboard box somewhere secluded to help her feel really secure first. A lot cheaper than $200 anti-depressants! Plus fewer side-effects.
My psychiatrist SIL used to use Feliway diffusers to calm things down between her Norwegian Forest cat and his smaller, younger, common or garden variety "brother." She thought it helped. I think they're supposed to boost oxytocin levels or something?
@dorianne my little catto was a rescue cat and she pulls her fur out. It's heartbreaking but she is a very happy catto other than that. Your cat was very enlightened; they know.
The culprit was eventually identified as a Virginia creeper he'd been cutting back - new hobby, he'd never spent much time in the garden before.
If that is happening, it may be a person's choice to live that way, but
get the pets a better place to live, or change it. imo.
I prefer to think enlightened!!! We were tight, me 'n' George....
The daughter who arrived minutes after his passing wasn't too pleased
Did you hear about one care home in the states where the resident cat knew when people were about to die and would go to their room and sit on their beds till they died?
I imagine you would be terrified every time that cat walked past your door. "Keep going, keep going" Whew!!!
I was listening to Christina Aguilera doing a medley of Whitney Houston songs whilst kitty was kneading. Christina just smashed it on the American Music Awards.
So, forget Metamucil. Just get a cat if you don't have one already and point them to your stomach. You'll be regular in no time. Great idea for senior homes?
Cats do enlightened self-interest more charmingly (and therefore successfully) than any other species. I used to think they were pretty ruthless with it, too - but that was before I got to know chickens.
Kitten snuggles are the most awesome thing when you're not feeling well. :-D
Very funny that. The puppies must have thought it was a bag of their kibbies.
Wondering if the squirrel will mess with the bag of potting soil still on my front porch?
This morning I looked out and gasped......it was gone! The whole bag!
dH had moved it.
Carmella used to appear out of nowhere anytime any food source made noise....WHY do they make the Temptations bags look and sound the same as snacks-for-people bags???? WHY?
We have two pet rats as well. They were my son's birthday present this year. I couldn't wait for him to wake up on the day, so I woke him and dragged him out of bed, and when he saw what they were his sleepy eyes lit up and he said 'my children!'
World domination mind control cat doesn't kill them even though they run around on the lounge. She never tried to kill the guineapigs either. They lived in an open enclosure on the lounge floor and it didn't occur to me that cats might like to hunt them. It didn't occur to her either!
I'm not sure it is acute hearing, Lonely. I think it might be mind control?
She's snuggled into the back of my knees being her usual lovely little self. Wish I could put her photo up.