I have recently petitioned the court for guardianship for my mom. There is no one else to take care of her here. She does have some resources but they have to last. Three doctors wrote that she is incompetent but the court appointed her a lawyer to represent her interests. This lawyer was extremely aggressive and bullying toward her, trying to get her to change her will and saying horrible things about me. Neutral parties have already made an investigation and came to the conclusion that she is well cared for and there is no financial malfeasance whatsoever. How can I stop this lawyer before he gets all of my mother's money and she is truly destitute. They said she has to fire the lawyer that she never hired but she has dementia and is always confused and not really aware of what this lawyer is telling her.
but. i do understand where your coming from and its a scary place to be for you and the elder. if you both share the same genetic paranoid personality traits it can cause many a sleepless night. if anybody bullies you take it up with the family doc. hes more powerful than the judge in this s**t because the law has blocked anyone from questioning his training and authority. our doc told hospice to present themselves like guests in our home because their antics were causing us unnecessary tension.