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My sig-other steps on anything on the floor, mainly cat toys. I blame his bi-focals as he is looking through the reading part when walking, thus it is blurry..... [sigh]
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Gershun, a less dramatic approach about the foot problem might be to get a pair of super large socks, bright red or even white. Some stretchy socks these days don’t have a shaped heel, so they might be easier. Put them on over your footwear, to make it difficult for DH to ignore your feet. It’s cheap to try, and might help the situation.
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cw - sounds reasonable. I hope that fixes it.
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Thank goodness I have connections, the guy who put on the roof is from my small village and he sent out some men already. They think it's the skylight itself and not roof related so they slapped on some caulking around the glass, hopefully that holds until better weather next spring🤞
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CW, oh no!
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@Gershun

OMG. Next time he steps on your injured foot, throw a glass of water in his face.
Or don't let him get close enough to you that he can step on your foot.
I had care clients who were known to be 'shadowers' which means they have to be so close to a person that they're breathing down your neck at all times.
I've never allowed a client to shadow me. If one would try to I would extend my arms in front of myself and tell them very emphatically, 'BACK UP!' and they always did. Try this with your husband.
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No puppy.
Your avatar cracks me up Send :)
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Did you get a puppy Cwilllie?
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I got up to a puddle on the floor under my skylight. Dang dang dang 😦
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🥰 more wisdom…

“Know your worth, then add tax.”
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🥰 more wisdom…

“If you avoid the conflict to keep the peace, you start a war inside yourself.”
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Oh gershun, ouch, ouch, ouch!!! Does he usually step on your feet? Hotel sounds good or why not tell him to go to his parents until your foot is healed? I am a do-it-yourselfer too. Trouble is as your get older you need others to help you. I don't like it one bit. I've always been very independent

Prayers for safety for your foot and healing.
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he stepped on you gershun? oh boy. sorry to hear that.

courage!

sendhelp has good advice!
“Use the crutches, point one at him, and shove if he gets too close.” 🙂
“Amazon has huge long distance water guns, both pistols and rifles.” 🙂

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and tell him you have a bunch of friends on the forum who’ll be really mad at him too, if he steps on you again.
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Yesssss.
I hear you.

Keep in mind, the best revenge is living well.

We can only try.
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Or .........................
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Gershun,
I agree.
And from experiences, I know that to be true for me as well.

Not sure it is that way for everyone. But maybe if you are the independent type, people around you have never learned to be helpful, but instead have relied on you.

If you need to keep someone away from your foot, Amazon has huge long distance water guns, both pistols and rifles.
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Send, I've learned that the best help I can give myself is from myself. I don't trust anyone else.
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Gershun,
You may have neglected other health concerns due to the pain of a broken foot.
Do what you can to best take care of yourself in all areas, while healing. Even resting is no fun because the pain can get to you.

Feeling overwhelmed, talk it out on here. I was surprised that so many caregivers have broken a bone. We could start a club.

We care.

Oh, I just read about hubs stepping on your foot.
Use the crutches, point one at him, and shove if he gets too close. Finally, a good use for crutches.

Ouch.
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Thx Bundle,

I need to maybe stay away from my hubs for a while too. Twice now he's stepped on my injured foot. So far, not the broken part but give him time.

I'm so mad at him right now I can't tell you. I mean how hard is it to be careful around someone with a fractured foot? I told him to just give me some space. Keep at least a foot between me and your biga** stomping feet. One more time and I'm going to book myself into a hotel for the next four weeks.
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courage! 🥰
i hope you don’t feel like that, gershun.

your foot will get better!! find out if the boot is a good idea…i think doctors probably have mixed feelings about using a boot vs. not using a boot.

the thing is, using a boot can weaken the rest of the foot/ankle, because it’s totally immobile. similarly, for broken ribs (without punctured lung), doctors used to wrap up the rib cage. years later, doctors started advocating against wrapping: just leave the rib cage alone, natural, let it heal.

it’s important nothing else bumps into your left foot to hurt it. but sometimes a boot (keeping the foot totally immobile) can have negative side-effects — sometimes no boot, natural healing, using crutches but leaving the foot in the open air is better.

but your doctor knows best of course, and you. i’m just saying, sometimes no boot is better.

feel better soon! :)
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Does anyone else on here feel like they're just circling the drain lately?
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🥰 more wisdom…

“Toxic people will slowly kill you. They kill your positive spirit and play with your mind and emotions.”
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🥰 more wisdom…

“Don’t invest too much time or effort with toxic people. They don’t deserve your mental energy.”
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“The idea is simple, stay a light year away from people who make you feel less about yourself.”
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Hi there Bandy! Good to hear from ya! If I can make you laugh too, all good.

I should have shown my poor old feet more appreciation cause I sure am missing my left one.
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“Should you ever find yourself the victim of other people’s bitterness, smallness or insecurities, remember, things could be worse…you could be them.”
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We also have pest control coming over tomorrow cause the moth flies are still ruling our roost. We tried traps we ordered online. But they have only caught two flies. I think I saw a couple of flies giving the traps the finger as they flew by.

So there's that. Then on Wednesday we have a glass guy coming by cause the hinges on the shower door we had installed 6 mths ago is malfunctioning. The warrenty just expired so DH is angry. I'll need to referee that encounter on my one leg. May need to use my crutch to break up a fight.

What more can happen. Oh, snow is in the forecast. Not planning on limping around with my crutches in that so I guess I'm housebound for a while.
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Willie, I hope you never need to go down that route/boot either.

It's just so heavy and when I get up from a sitting position the pressure I need to put on my good leg is tough cause I have osteoporosis in that leg. Plus the sole is high on the boot so my body weight is not distributed properly. I'll use it outside but otherwise I ordered a higher sole orthopedic/arch support slipper online. I'll wear that at home when it arrives.
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🥰 more wisdom…

“Spoil yourself. Appreciate the awesomeness of you.”
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Sorry you two are feeling pain🤗. I'm surprised to read that the boots are so uncomfortable, that's something to keep in mind (although hopefully I'll never need that bit of wisdom).
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