Whom I dream about almost every. single. night.
At any rate, this other NYT article written by palliative care doc discusses the realities of dying at home vs facility. Again comments. Oh gosh. One take away, reading obits, surrounded by family, no, maybe not.
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/03/well/live/is-dying-at-home-overrated.html
Do you ever try to write down your dreams. When I write down my dreams I see them, listen to them, hear them in a whole different way. I find key words in the retelling that let me know my brain is trying to help with sort of allegorical stories, to work out things that are hard for me. That it is actually trying to help me figure my way through the thickets.
I hope things continue to progress along for you.
http://www.virtualhospice.ca/en_US/Main+Site+Navigation/Home/Topics/Topics/Decisions/Considerations+for+a+Home+Death.aspx
Since then our community raised funds to open a 3 bed hospice facility and I think that this is a wonderful option and something that should be more commonly available.