He is still insisting on investing the money coming in from cashing out old investments to provide money for his, and my, care in the future. We have hired a fiduciary who is a family friend but he insists on controlling. I am only hopeful that when the money comes in, he will have forgotten his desire to invest which was a hobby for him in the past and I would like to continue for his sake, but there is little to spare.
There is a possibility that your husband may need LTC within the next 5 years. You need to protect your half from Medicaid. I too suggest you see an estate lawyer versed in Medicaid to secure your future.