I know I've asked probably about everything possible and I'm GREATFUL to all that have answered. My mother does things that I have never wanted to mention cus I didn't want her possibly in trouble, but she does things that cause me to flash back like when I was married to someone mentally abusive. Idk how to cope. She has convinced me since the panic attacks, I can't do anything not even survive. I am on a fixed income so she uses anything on me she can. My only sister won't have nothing to do with her. She changes things on purpose they can't find nothing wrong with her. Accept WANTING A PERFECT WORLD and if I don't agree with her she is always mad. I don't wanna sound selfish but I don't know how I would survive financially or anything cause she pushed everyone away. But she silences me on purpose. She is meaner toward me everyday. Before she had sum give in her and admitted she was only saying the word. Not actually doing it but. Now gets extremely mad and creates a diversion. She blames me. For anything and now actually just said last week and a couple of Times this week she don't hate me anymore. Has written things i wish I had never read.. About me that are terrible. She at one time said in her words she had tendencies she shouldn't have ..she actually smiles when I ask her b4. Now she I know she knows what she is doing.... Is she sick with a illness or basically what I've read n all. Is she criminally insane...my sister claims criminal insane but I know they have a terrible relationship but I need to know for my own peice of mind. I hope that makes sense. Could someone please answer me as soon as possible. Thanks to everyone who has answered before n when someone. Said nothing had changed in 6 months....please could someone please answer me on this. Thanks to all
Has she been seen by a geriatric psychiatrist? It sounds as though caregiving for her is not good for your health.
What other arrangements can be made for her care?