I'm a member of a private club that won't let anyone near it they don't know
I have avoided legal responsibility
I'm not power of attorney
Norma does not have any assets
I'm well off financially
The cabin we live in is totally mine
I know I'm being used by her and her family
If things get too bad I can leave Norma with her family and run off
The club will let me stay for a day of a lifetime and it is very secure
This sort of reminds me of a situation that I got in when I was young
I can shut down my cabin and come back later when things cool off
It makes the situation easier when you have a way out
I was in an old WWII plane at an airshow one of the 4 engines caught fire in flight. I had a parachute and I used it. Ps the fire was put out and the plane landed safely without me in it
Your post prompts me to comment that Norma may have other ideas about whether or not you are her caregiver.
At your ages, she may think that she is your caregiver, and aware that you need one. Maybe you are both delusional (no evidence to the contrary).
You say that you have avoided legal responsibility. Are you sure, after living together as a possible common law couple in Texas?
Isn't she entitled to have a part ownership of the cabin?
This is not WWII, not an airshow, and you are too old to jump from an airplane.
What does Norma have to say on this topic?