I was in a pretty good mood (under the circumstances) until my mother opened her mouth again and again. She is attention seeking, complains all the time about her pain which is more incredible than any pain anyone else could ever have (it's so great it can part the seas). Just stupid! She takes enough medicine to put an elephant down but it doesn't work according to her. My husband thought I was upset with him because I was and am quiet and just want to be left alone. I told him it's not him but his mother-in-law (my mother). I'm at my wits end with her!!!!!!!!!!!
Happy Anniversary to you and your hubby!
And , once, on Valentines Day I "ordered" ordered him a , ummm, lady of the evening. IT WAS ME! I bought a wig and dressed in a slinky dress and rang the doorbell. (again, daughter was nice and safe tucked in bed-she was but a wee thing then) if the neighbors had looked out of their windows they would have had quite a shock!
Hope that wasn't too much information-TMI-- but I am just saying-sometimes it takes some creativity.
(hmmm, my 20th is coming up next year-maybe" Bambi"will come back. Of course she will not look the same in that tight fitting dress. Not at all!!!! Lol! )
I read somewhere here recently that if we even hit back from defending yourself of their physical attacks, that we can be in trouble of elderly abuse. If we live together and don't take care of them, it's abuse.
We can try to medicate them to make them calm. We can find a way to put them in alternative living or nursing home. We can move out and let them fend for themselves until someone gets hurt and only then will the gov't step in. Or you learn as much as you can on their dementia and how to react. Etc... life sucks.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO YOU !
HAPPY ANNNIVERSARY TO YOU - ( and your hubby-* wiggling hands)
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY DEAR RAINSIN( and your hubby---*wigggle wiggle )
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO YOOOOOOOUUUUUUUU ( and you hubby-----*wiggle wiggle, wiggle hands ,)
Sorry your Mom made you and on your big Day!!! Celebrate anyway! 30 years deserves a nice celebration even if it takes you a few weeks to get it worked out.