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Beatty,

I bet we could get a group discount! 😁
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Love it!! 😂😂😂

XLL Peace, free shipment

YES please!! Just about to start my day & you gals just lightened it up 🌞🌞🌞
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Venting,

I adore a person with sarcastic wittiness! You made me giggle just now.

Wouldn’t it be nice if we could order it in a JUMBO size?

Damn straight, leave a really good review for it! Amazon Prime has free shipping, so we will order it there! 😊
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Thanks for all your words, all of you!

Sometimes there really are things out of your control.

Need:
Thanks! I’m also really glad. Good riddance. Now the only thing is, the discovery of that frenemy is just a tiny problem, compared to the mountain of problems in front of me (which have nothing to do with frenemies). Mount Everest is a tiny, tiny pebble in comparison. Mount Everest should be embarrassed how small it is!

Of course, I try to focus on what I can control.

Anyway, I need to vent again. Here I go: 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶

I feel a little better.

Need:
Peace in my life. That sounds great. Can I order that online, size XLL? Free shipping? Do I leave a review?
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Venting,

There are genuine people who are sincere in their wishes and there are phonies who are just pretending.

Personally, I detest hypocrisy. I would rather someone be honest with me, than to pretend to be a friend.

Sooner or later, people figure out who the phonies are.

I am glad that you found out sooner, rather than later, that this person wasn’t sincere.

I am sorry that things are so difficult at the moment. As Alva always says, not everything can be fixed.

Hoping that you will be able to settle your issues, or at least find coping strategies, so that you can have peace in your life.
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Thx. Llama

Need - I actually feel ok other than sore muscles which are getting better.

venting - you do have control - over yourself and what you choose to do about your situation,
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Sorry that you aren’t feeling well, Golden.
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Golden: Hope that you feel better soon.
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Thanks for listening, and all the kindness this forum gives me. I need to vent. I'm really going through a lot. All out of my control. If I would describe even just one of the numerous problems, it would seem made up. I seriously considered writing a book about it. (I'm not a writer).

I tried to think what advice I would give a friend, if they were going through what I'm going through. But it's so unbelievable what I'm going through. Would seem like fiction.

I guess I'd say: take one problem at a time. Then just keep getting rid of the problems. Look at the big pile of problems, start with a small problem.

Unrelated to this, I discovered a new problem today. Someone I trusted, turned out to be a frenemy (enemy disguised as a friend). Well it's better to know now, that to never have found out. I cut them out of my life this morning.

Perhaps I, should, write that book. What would I call it? I guess that depends how it ends.

I hope I can call the book "It Ended Better Than I Ever Could Have Dreamed Of".
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arkh64 - Very frustrating, Maybe you can distract her. Easier said than done sometimes.

Thank goodness I don't eat ice cream anymore - unless I make it.

My whine today is about sore abdominals. I did a major trip on something and didn't fall, but oh my obliques and more are sore!!! Shows me that's an area I need to work on - side bends at least. It only hurts when I laugh, or cough or bend or...

Also I haven't been able to get a doctor yet. I am on two waiting lists. For my prescription meds I can see the pharmacist again who will send me for a TSH blood test first or go to a walk in clinic, so my immediate needs are met. I don't need another drivers medical till summer 2025 so I am Ok there, I guess getting prescriptions and getting a family doctor are two different exercises. Sigh. One of my reasons for moving here was better medical care! Hah!!! My son who just arrived here found one quickly near him. He won't tell me who he is,🤔
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Most premium ice creams are only 400 - 450 ml in Canada and because of that (in my province at least) they are now classified as single serving items and taxed too.... yeah, no thanks.
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Haagen Daz pints are only 14oz now . 😢
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My mom’s in MC and constantly asks “ I want to go home “ “When am I going home?” “ Why am I here?” Ugh!
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please find time for the things that make you feel happy to be alive.
🌸🌸🍀🍀🌸🌸🍀🍀
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That's what I'm trying to say, house flower, thanks!!
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I really don’t believe in karma. I do believe in you reap what you sow.
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I think what I was trying to say was I believe in karma as for , we bring are own karma, it is up to us to change ,so we don't bring bad karma into are life
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Out of curiosity, I checked reddit to see more or less, how many people who comment there, believe in karma. I thought it would be 50/50.

It's more like 95% don't believe in karma, 5% do.

Personally, I've never seen karma at work in my life. As in, I've never seen people who did bad things get what they deserve, in my opinion. And I've seen plenty of good people have terrible things happen to them.

But despite that, I believe in karma. It's like a deep belief in order in the universe. Moral order. That one day - don't know when, there will indeed be karma, people will get what they deserve.

Hellokarma! Yes, I'll continue doing me, which as you said, is already a full-time job. I'm even doing over-time.
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Alva I'm not a big believer in karma either, I just believe if people keep doing the things that are wrong the eventually get caught.

I was friends a man who did some really crappy stuff to his aging mom. He never forgave himself. He ended up in jail, for covering up his sons crimes. I think some people that can't forgive themselves, keep doing stupid stuff because they don't feel that they deserve better.

We all have done dom hurtful things to people, it's all about learning not to do it again.
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Did someone call my name?
I confirm I exist. Everything happens at the right time…

You just keep doing you, which is already a full-time job.
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Hereiam, I think karma is total nonsense. But then I am a non-believer.
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So true!
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I think hereiam, that those people are more miserable and unhappy than most , that's why they want to try to make everyone else miserable
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About bad people seemingly getting away with things:
"Just because we see them acting all powerful and fine in public doesn't mean they are peaceful and happy with themselves in private. You have to see the whole picture."
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So I quit a job once, because the boss was sexually harassing me. Didn't feel like going through the bs of no one believing me. Didn't like the job anyways.

Anyways I got a jod as a caregiver, took one of my clients to the library, guess who was homeless sitting in the library. The boss 🤗 He got his karma. I honestly new he would.
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Dear Sp, "In fact I have seen people who hurt people go on to have much success and protection from the universe and reap no consequences of their actions."

I like the reply I just saw of someone on the internet, about karma:

Perhaps right now. But Karma takes time and it's not over yet. :-).  And even if they're doing "better", they may have some things going on that you don't know about. Remember that you cannot know everything about someone's life.

Here I Am
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I totally understand what you're saying. And you might be right. But you might be wrong.

I wrote, in reply to what you said, "many a truly evil person has certainly not gone on to reap the reward for hurting others."

Maybe it only seems like that ----- in this life.
It depends also on one's view of what happens after this life.

Here I Am
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@hereiam I know that for sure. I have living proof, right now that karma does not exist. It is only natural to think that good people will somehow come out on top in this world when people intentionally harm them BUT that is the exception not the rule in this universe. In fact I have seen people who hurt people go on to have much success and protection from the universe and reap no consequences of their actions.
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Dear Sp, I understand your skepticism. And maybe you're right. After all, none of us are omniscient and know the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth about the universe. But, you might also be wrong. There might indeed be karma. I believe it.

"many a truly evil person has certainly not gone on to reap the reward for hurting others."

We don't know that for sure, Sp.
Maybe it only seems like that, in this life.
Maybe, not everything is as it seems.

The universe, life, is quite mysterious.
After all, if karma would so obviously exist, no one would dare to behave badly, and bad people would never reveal their true nature.

Here I Am
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Sorry at @hereiam there is no such thing as karma. It's a nice concept in theory but many a truly evil person has certainly not gone on the reap the reward for hurting others.
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