I'm tired of cooking/preparing 3 meals a day. It's just the two of us but boy oh boy can that woman eat!! She stays slimish, I get fattish. It's bad enough I do everything here much less start making her one thing and me the other. At times I feel guilty when I buy her fast food cuz of the nutritional value....not to mention I eat it too.
Never give up. Don’t lose hope.
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My whine today is that this morning early my kitty graced me with a fur ball on the rug at the end of the bed. Cleaning it up is not my fave first chore in the am, On the other hand, she is a great little companion.
Also. had conversations that went awkward with both 2 of my kids in the same evening recently/ Arrgh! Gotta back off and start connecting more with people here at the condo. May be able to make a friend or two.
Glad your DH is home and healing.
Two weeks ago, I asked, after a kind of round about "well, I could do this or that" for him to drive our car to where I was going to be by and then walk home. This was going to pick my kid up from a biopsy.
He said he really didn't want to do that. I was devastated. I was disappointed. I was angry.
This last week, when I drove him to someplace he needed to get to with some computer equipment without any fuss or muss, I said afterwards that the fact that I do stuff like that is why I was so disappointed and angry that you said no last week.
It's very hard for me to ask for stuff. And hard for me to say no to stuff that is asked of me by someone I love.
I think most of us here struggle with this sort of thing with our loved ones
Happy to hear this wonderful news!
He's mad as a wet hen that he has a catheter-I knew from perusing the Internet that it was a very likely, but it's only for a week.
Thanks for all of your prayers and good thoughts. I hope this ends his issues with gravel and stones!
Barb - prayers for successful surgery for dh.
Geaton - how frustrating - on all accounts!!! Age discrimination on that application (drop down menu?). The world is going to have to accept that there are functioning people over 100 yo.
Anti-whine - R is about 2 weeks ahead of the game with his post knee surgery range of motion exercises. Just give him a challenge...
So then I called to make an application. Had to do a 3-way call and my Aunt answered the rep's questions like a champ... but her app was declined. Probably her SS income just didn't cut the mustard for Discover.
I know you're probably wondering why she even needs a cc... ( now I will pause to attach a very long and tacky fake nail to my index finger which I will point into your face while I say in a classic NJ accent: ) DON'T GET ME STARTED
Also, I obeyed my daughter who told me "keep your eyes CLOSED whatever you do".
Helps so much.
Just try to listen to the clank clanking as a sort of modern, discordant concert for which you paid big bucks and have to say you "understood" to be considered at all "effete".
You know, a matter of raising your brows and looking down your nose at the rest of the riffraff. Some folks get good at it. Hee hee.
At least they are good at SOMEthing.
Riverdale, I've had the 3D as well. Gave me some extra peace of mind.
So happy for your daughter and keeping ALL of you in my prayers. Believing with you that your husband will do great with his surgery.
I had a solid mass when I was 40. My doctor ordered a biopsy and it was benign.
My breasts are dense too. Mammograms will show that you have dense breasts.
They will let you know if a biopsy is needed. Some of us have this dense breasts situation.
As long as you continue to do your routine mammograms, you’ll have a good frame of reference.
Riverdale
Did you have the 3D exam?
Dense breast sometimes are given this because more can be seen.
Here is an article from Mayo.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/3d-mammogram/about/pac-20438708
My primary didn’t order it for me because I had never had a poor prior result yet the tech had complained about my dense breast and I had heard the 3d was the better test.
I was having pain so I went to a cancer hospital and they did the 3d and found what turned out to be a benign cyst.
So my thinking is your report was giving the doc an opportunity to evaluate whether a 3D should be ordered.
That’s fantastic news!