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Troll- Totally, Relying, On, Lying. Lips?
Tirelessly, Responsive, Overthrowing, Love & Logic?

Now I am just trying to think of words Troll could stand for.
Ok head hurts, moving on.
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You know Send, in storage I have many little troll dolls. My Dad bought me one as a joke. I said politely Oh how cute, thank you. He began bringing me home troll dolls, he thought I loved them. But then I did love them because I love Him, and because he had gotten me them. I still have no idea what to do with them all.
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Troll: Tiresome revolting obnoxious lurking lugnuts
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Must this site be so negative? I'd love to hear pleasant things on people's minds
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"It is easy to be pleasant
when life flows by like a song.
But the man worth while is one who can smile,
when everything goes dead wrong."
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salutem
May 27, 2019
I have an idea: instead of 'Troll' why not call them 'witches' that way we can burn them at the stake, I don't know maybe in a place called Salem up in New England. That might be a good idea, original too!!
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What thread was the troll on? I missed it/him/her. I only followmaybe 5 threads so I’m usually in the dark.
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Salutem,
You are right, the forum does take a slightly negative turn, especially after a national holiday like Memorial Day, remembering those who died to keep us safe.
People visit graves, become reflective, and solemn.

We can all benefit by thinking some positive thoughts.

With that in mind, I am positive that I need a vacay to the beach!

We all need people like you to remind us, so thank you!
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Did you all hear the (I think he was) 96 years old, vet playing the national anthem on his harmonica? Oh it made me cry. Was so lovely.
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Is crying a positive or a negative Smeshque?
A happy sadness, poignant moment?
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I saw it smeshque and it made both my husband and I cry too, the way he played and put his whole heart into it....it was awesome~
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It was so precious, Lu. I am so glad he was blessed with that moment. They say people call him harmonica Pete.
If only we could see more special things like that, well of course we would be crying all the time, but our hearts would be smiling. :)
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The troll is gone, taken care of by the admins.

Those who are left behind must not be trolls, I am guessing.

Maybe I won't mention trolls anymore, if people start to think it is them!
It has been fun.
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What I hate is when people start calling out trolls (or people they perceive to be trolls, because sometimes they are wrong) on a thread, it's like feeding frenzy at the shark tank. Either walk away or PM the moderators, don't get into a pi$$ing match on the forum.
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Fudge, tracking package.....
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On my mind.....
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“Never be defined by what has happened to you in the past, it was just a life lesson, not a life sentence. ~


Donald Pillai”
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On my mind: a black out Sudoku game that I'm trying to solve for several days now.
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Thanks for that quote, smeshque.  A friend healing from the past will love it too.

My son is here for the week, and yesterday helped with Aunt Rose's ashes atop Mt. Washington.  We're enjoying his company, getting rest (he's cooking and cleaning) and slowly catching up on a few things. 

On my mind?   There IS life after Caregiving!
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whenever we get frustrated with her, my mom says " one mother can take care of three children but three children can't take care of one mother"
We try our best, well, at least two of us do anyway
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We took Mom to Aunts today for an open ended visit ( up to 2 weeks if all goes well) So hubs and I are empty nesters for a bit.. how exciting!! Uh,, all I managed to do once we got home was play with the pupper and do my nails. Maybe that's what is meant to be today! We did eat a nice lunch out.. Hopefully I'll have more energy tomorrow, DD is coming over for fathers day dinner.
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It is sad that people can't feel safe here to ask or answer questions!
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I'm very sorry that you've got that impression, Mikki. I've been a member of the forum for - oo dear, far too long really - and feel safer talking through my issues (more than Vogue, as they say) here than I do in real life.

I also get far more sensible and open-minded answers.

Sometimes responses to OPs are hilariously wide of the mark (it's hilarious if you've got that sort of sense of humour, anyway), sometimes they tell home truths a bit too bluntly, and sometimes when they're badly misjudged it's because the OP has neglected to mention some vital piece of information, such as that they're paraplegic or live in Baghdad.

I don't think I've ever called anyone a troll, though I have reported suspected imposters, sales reps, agitators and the occasional - oh Good Lord! - sexual deviant to the moderators. I have also received my fair share of offensive private messages, but the Delete button takes care of those so easily.

I always regret it when members fall out among themselves, but I regret it even more if it's putting people off joining in the discussions.
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Happy Father's Day to all the caring dads out there. Fathers are important. Have fun BBQ-ing, relaxing, watching sports, etc. You deserve it.
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I would find postings like this

"group dynamics foster the phenomenon of scapegoating. there will always be another 'troll' if there is a scapegoating mentality. let's try to not foster one, and let's not be so quick to label people as 'trolls' simply because our views are different from theirs"

much more comforting if the same member was not also making postings like

"yes, evil is a matter of heart. However, the NRA has people convinced that gun control is a terrible thing. Why is it a terrible thing? How many more innocent men, women, and yes, children have to massacred before we adopt sensible gun control laws. And if it makes you feel any better, then yes by all means let's ban spoons and forks because a mass murder can take out as many innocent victims just as quickly with a spoon and fork as he/she could with a gun. right? I know this post will get no likes but I'm not here to be liked, if I wanted to be liked I'd be talking about the virtues of Lou Dobbs, Fox news, and the local church picnic next Sunday."

In any mutually supportive forum, we cannot attack those with differing views as either "trolls" or evil and uncaring. Neither can we go on to add that characterization not just to people who differ with us over an issue but to anyone who watches/reads a particular news agency or likes church picnics and maybe (by implication) attends church and consider themselves religious.

AC is about care giving. We come from all walks of life with very different life experiences. Some of have lived all our lives in rural areas; some in cities both large and small; many have lives that include both experiences. Some of us are better off financially than others but it appears most of us have endured financial hardship at least during some period of our lives. We include the very religious, the spiritual, and the unbelievers as well as liberal progressives, libertarians, physical conservatives, die hard conservatives and all the possible mixtures.

We ALL CARE about CARE GIVING. Very occasionally someone who is not really concerned about care giving makes their way onto this forum, sometimes they even cause some problems for a while but that is not the norm and does not include most members and posters on this site. Most people are here to learn about care giving and to share their care giving knowledge and experience with others in a effort to "pass it forward".

Sometimes our religious or politic leanings become relevant to a discussion but no one who steps up to become a care giver for another human being deserves to be labeled as "evil" or uncaring. So I asking everyone to please reflect on our care giver membership, particularly when posting about issues that passionately concern you, and consider leaving off the personal derogatory phases and characterizations.
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Why is Rice a Roni the San Francisco treat ?
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MM - Rice a Roni is just brand name for a type of flavored microwavable rice in a box, sort of like macaroni in a box. It's really nothing fancy. You can get a box for $0.99. The company (owned by Pepsi) tries to make it sound better by attaching the name San Francisco.

If I were in charge of their marketing, I would drop the name SF in their ads. If you follow the news, you'll know SF is now the home of homeless people and human waste littered everywhere on the streets.

Why is it SF treat? According to google, it was invented in Northwestern US.
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Since I have nothing better to do I did a little checking. Wikpedia knows all...
Rice a Roni was invented by the second generation of an Italian American pasta company that was based in San Francisco. It was bought by Quaker Oats in 1986 and Pepsico bought Quaker in 2001.
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My bags are packed and waiting for me to put them in the car. In less than an hour I'll be on the road for a 4-hour drive to visit Mom in memory care. Mom: 93, a demented, narcissistic, miserable chronic complainer with a toxic personality. I'm sipping the dregs of my decaf, trying to make it last. If I were a drinking woman, I'd be ....... sober, but wishing I wasn't!

I'm okay but feeling edgy. I've trimmed down my visits to the absolute bare minimum to preserve health and sanity. Others have stepped up their help. It's been 2 months since my last visit, the longest since I began my remote care-giving journey. I've discovered the further apart the visits are, the harder it's become to actually go. It's been lovely to have focused on my own needs, my own health for the past 8 weeks. But even I, Ms. Low Contact, has to stir herself now and again to take Mom to a doctor appt.

Asking all well-wishers to send good vibes in my direction, reminding me to hold my tongue, to be the Picture of Patience, to remember the brain is broken. To be kind. Assume and maintain Grey Rock. To remember I cannot change Mom; I can only change myself. All the advice I've dispensed here to those in similar circumstances. My actual face-to-face visit will encompass 4 or 5 hours, max. Just about all I can manage. That is, unless Mom's doctor's appointment requires an extended stay for ...... whatever.

Thanks to all of you. What would I do without you? You have been my strength when my bucket was empty. Keep it coming!
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Bond. James Bond.
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