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This is like Alzheimer's Disease symptom #1 to me.
I can't find *object* = *insert name* stole it.
Those of us with reasoning skills know there are MANY other reasons an *object* is missing.
- Innocently put back wrong. - Taken away on purpose for safety (eg that sharp pocket knife) - Given away as a gift or handed down (but forgotten) eg Where is that good checked baby blanket? - Given to Good Will decades back (but forgotton) eg Where is my brown leather coat? I wear it all the time (well DID.. in 1984)
And my top reason; - Already 'hid' from 'theives'. This is where the watch gets found down the side of the toilet, the dentures wrapped in a tissue in the bathroom bin, the wallet wedged under the mattress & cash poked into socks.
Try to avoid arguing or into defence mode. Try "Let me help you look!"
Or even just start blaming the faeries, the goblins, or elves. Reckon that's what they were for 😊
Since dementia robs people of their ability to use logic and reason, there is no point in trying to convince her that you didn't take it. You must use other strategies, like placation, distraction, redirection.
When you placate her, this may look like you saying, "Let me help you look for it" and then pull something else out of the drawer or closet and start talking about it ("Oh look at these shoes...do they still fit you? Let's try them on to see...").
Or, you can completely ignore her accusation and point to something out the window ("Did you see that squirrel? She's here a lot..." ) or show her a funny animal video on YouTube (of which there are many). My elders love watching those videos. She may briefly get upset or try to circle back to the accusation, but you can always walk out of the room on some pretext ("I think I heard the doorbell...") etc.
In my personal experience it takes practice to deal with a LO's paranoia because our conditioned, knee-jerk reaction is to reason with them like we've done for decades. You will eventually figure out what works best to get her mind off that theft channel.
This is a common thing with dementia, they can't remember what they have done themselves so they look for some other explanation. Unfortunately the more paranoid they become the more they are apt to hide things so it's an escalating, never ending circle.
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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I can't find *object* = *insert name* stole it.
Those of us with reasoning skills know there are MANY other reasons an *object* is missing.
- Innocently put back wrong.
- Taken away on purpose for safety (eg that sharp pocket knife)
- Given away as a gift or handed down (but forgotten) eg Where is that good checked baby blanket?
- Given to Good Will decades back
(but forgotton) eg Where is my brown leather coat? I wear it all the time (well DID.. in 1984)
And my top reason;
- Already 'hid' from 'theives'.
This is where the watch gets found down the side of the toilet, the dentures wrapped in a tissue in the bathroom bin, the wallet wedged under the mattress & cash poked into socks.
Try to avoid arguing or into defence mode. Try "Let me help you look!"
Or even just start blaming the faeries, the goblins, or elves. Reckon that's what they were for 😊
When you placate her, this may look like you saying, "Let me help you look for it" and then pull something else out of the drawer or closet and start talking about it ("Oh look at these shoes...do they still fit you? Let's try them on to see...").
Or, you can completely ignore her accusation and point to something out the window ("Did you see that squirrel? She's here a lot..." ) or show her a funny animal video on YouTube (of which there are many). My elders love watching those videos. She may briefly get upset or try to circle back to the accusation, but you can always walk out of the room on some pretext ("I think I heard the doorbell...") etc.
In my personal experience it takes practice to deal with a LO's paranoia because our conditioned, knee-jerk reaction is to reason with them like we've done for decades. You will eventually figure out what works best to get her mind off that theft channel.
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/dementia-and-paranoia-477589.htm
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/alzheimers-theft-paranoia-or-forgetfulness-133383.htm