Just heard from my mother for the first time since we went to see her at Christmas. She told me the reason her speech was slurring was because she fell before we got there. Said her spine was bleeding a little and her knee was bruised, but she didn't tell any staff because she doesn't want a report filed or to be checked out. My wife thinks she may be making this up, as it is hard to know when she's telling the truth or making things up.
She went on to tell me how I was her everything, and how she wanted me on her side. She wants me to go back to court and be her guardian again so I can get her out of there. She promises to go home (house is already empty and for sale), and will go to whatever doctors I want her to. Says she will die if she has to stay there another week and the food is horrible, although she's gained weight. I'm convinced that those scammers have taught her how to be a scammer and she is trying to play on my sympathies to get what she wants. I had thought about going for another visit next week, but if she's just going to continue to pester me about getting out/phone etc., I'll just stay home. I hate this disease!
Back off on the visits and phone calls, you are just her complaint department.