Dad has mild memory loss (can’t work a washing machine or remember where he’s going), cataracts, poor hearing and is unsteady on his feet. He had his driving license taken off him 10 years ago. He’s now decided he wants a mobility scooter to cruise the narrow, steep roads with fast cars to go down to the shops. Very uneven pavements too. Should we discourage him? Do you need medical approval?
Using a mobility scooter to get safely around is one thing. Using it to ride down busy streets, zipping through parking lots without paying attention to cars moving, backing up without checking behind you, racing down aisles in stores where people have to jump out of your way to avoid getting hit....
So...very long story short lol...if the only purpose of the mobility scooter is something dangerous.. I would discourage it. The tires aren't really road-rated, it isn't safe to ride in traffic, it causes sightline problems for drivers, it is very dangerous. And unfortunately you may see an actual decrease in mobility if he becomes dependent on it for other things and stops walking on his own with the walker.
These are not road safe.
My Dad had 1 and after the second time, with the police bringing him back in a police van with the scooter we donated it to the VFW. He would get lost, go on the roads that speed limits were 55mph. He used his arm to signal lane changes 😱😱.
No No No
I have watched a man on a scooter riding on the sidewalk fall over almost in the road. This was from my office window. The sidewalk was uneven. TG a couple of people stopped immediately to help. After that he road in the road. We had a couple of clients who because of disabilities got them free. Only to find out that when the battery could no longer charge, it was $100 or more to buy a new battery. They could not afford it, so the scooter just sat.
If your Dad can't drive a car, he can't drive a scooter. I would also check the law in your area to see if they are allowed on roadways.
If he still wants one and you think he could use it at home, make sure the scooter is small enough to fit through doorways. Scooters are set at 4 or 5 MPH, and are not meant to be driven on the streets with auto traffic. They must be used on the sidewalk, unless you live in a very small community with light traffic and no sidewalks. A 4-wheel scooter is less likely to tip over than a 3-wheel scooter. To keep the batteries in good condition the scooter needs to be recharged at least every other day even if not used.
I’ve been using a scooter for 5 years and love my independence. My small town only has a post office, so I don’t travel far. It’s mostly used at home. Since Covid came along, I lost my housekeeper, and have had to learn to sweep, mop, and vacuum my home while on the scooter. I can still drive my car, but cannot walk. Transferring from car to scooter can be a challenge. Other times I can put it on the lift on my car and go to town and shop several stores or visit museums and other events. Senior transportation is another way to get to town with a scooter.
Good luck. I know how your Dad feels.
There are many different scooters available. Prices start about $700.00 and up over $4000.00. Pride and Golden are both good brands.
I didn't live near my mom, but when I went to visit, I saw a lot of evidence of her having many many many accidents with that scooter in the house. She would be sitting on her scooter, fall asleep, and accidentally turn the speed up...then she'd halfway wake up and her hand would hit the throttle and she'd crash into the wall. Or she wouldn't realize her leg was dangling off the side of the scooter and she's scrape it along the wall causing it to bleed. There were marks all over the walls where she had slammed into them, blood everywhere. She destroyed the house with the scooter...it was pretty terrifying.
One time she wanted to go to Disney World with me and my kids...she rented a scooter...she wasn't on the thing for more than 10 seconds before she ran me down and knocked me over. This happened SEVERAL times that day. She also hit other people. I still don't know if that happened because she was impaired or because she just didn't care. It is really sad to see someone lose their independence. I don't look forward to it myself...but we have to be careful with things like that...getting run over by a dang scooter is not fun!
Are you speaking about the motorized scooter where the elderly person is seated and drives? They are very expensive without insurance. It’s difficult to get approved for insurance for these.
My mother’s neurologist said that people are turned down all of the time when trying to become approved for a scooter.
Best of luck to your dad. This must be so hard for you and your sister to witness.
I suppose that your dad wishes to be more involved in his life and feels like he has lost control of his life. That’s a tough position for him to be in.
Your sister probably only has so much time to devote to shopping and it’s hard for her too.
It’s frustrating for everyone. So sorry that you are dealing with this situation. Hope that you can find a viable solution soon. Best wishes to you and your family.
Why does your sister always have to take him? Is there any other family members close that could take him? Maybe he just needs to get out of the house. I can relate to that.
Could you or someone else devote a day to get him and take him for a ride somewhere? My daughter does that for her dad. She told me that after church today, she is taking him out for lunch and they are going to go to a nearby lake so he can take photos. He loves playing with cameras and videos. Then during the week he can play with the photos he took today. It gets him out of the AL and also gives him something to do during the week.
requires a license or
requires a doctor’s note or
can’t be driven on the streets or
whatever else you can think of that he would accept.
My dad had one that he used around the house when he was too weak to walk (Parkinson’s) and he would sit in the driveway. But he never wanted to go any further. His interest in it faded and there it sits.
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