Am I in the right? Did I do anything wrong?

I am going through a very nasty divorce. They seem to be on their her side. My 80-year-old father didn’t like a comment I made about my so-called narcissist wife. Out of the blue, he attacked me. Hit me in the shoulder in the arm twice and for an eight year-old man he still got a hit. It still hurts when he hits. When he figured that didn’t work, he threw a full can of beer on me which I hate beer. I hate the smell of beer. I hate everything about it because I’ve grown up watching him. Drink too many a day as a kid. I can’t remember if he really ever spanked me a bunch as a young kid did other things but never really abused me never really got along. Couple years ago at 70 something he fell off the roof trying to put Christmas lights up after he told not to he did it anyway and fell off the ladder into the driveway and still this day and it was the middle Covid still see that in my head when I was at the hospital, which was brutal to see a man that was so big and strong crying like a little baby asking for help. He has lost his filter because of his notions and meanness has gotten worse. My mom even complained about it. But here’s the kicker I said something he didn’t like it and he jumped at me like scared the living crap out of me, hit me twice and threw a whole can of beer on me and then when he went to go grab my shirt and start choking me because I was trying to walk away And push back did not realize he was standing on the bottom of the stoop. He fell and broke his hip. I had enough of the whole thing over the years pretty much told him like it was that I didn’t care what happened. Walked away and got in my car and left and called the police made a report they wanted to rest him for simple battery and I said no, I plead it too because it is still my father. He’s 80 years old and he would never made it in there. Now the whole family has turned against me from my brother the oldest one that threatened to kick my ass and everything else for what I did and I didn’t do anything. I just pushed them away to get them off of me and left. My police report. Says I am the victim , so wrong because they’re trying to get on elder abuse. It’s gone as far as when I picked up the police report because they were going to send it to me one way or another. I want to go also pick up a police report of what my wife had done to the house. that’s when I went to go get. And they handed me the other one too, said they had to hand it to me so because it in Georgia, they send you a letter that I picked it up. I figured I’d tell my mom when I told her that I had it. She didn’t even let me finish she went off the handle told me to get the heck out of the house that I was no longer part of the family that I was a piece of crap, and all I was gonna tell her was I was gonna rip it up and throw it away. Now I have it hidden in my car because unfortunately, because of the restraining order that I had put on me that I apparently busted her lying again and then believing her the TPO officer has my address. Is there which qualifies me to stay there and I got no friends left because of my wife, they didn’t want to deal with it so I have nowhere to go. I’m still at my parents house with the rats. I got chewed up by fleas a bite on my leg and my backside that got infected. I made them get an exterminator. I feel like I’ve lost my family in a time in need anyway like they literally said it with her told me that I’m full of crap and that’s why she’s leaving me because of what I did to my father I probably did it to my wife. no I didn’t. I’ve never laid a hand on that woman. I never laid a hand on anybody. I used to be a human doormat. I let people walk all over me, including my parents. So am I wrong or right for pushing him away because the police said I’m in the right they labeled me as the victim. My mother can’t remember things very well so she writes it down and I found it and it says we want to charge you with elder abuse. I’ve lost my trust in them