Moved Mom (at her request) from our home to assisted living in January. She likes the idea of her own “place,” but there are issues:
1. It’s EXTREMELY expensive.
2. She has a little dog, and it’s a struggle to walk him repeated times a day. Prior to move in we were told “care costs” could include periodic help before bed for dog walk, but at lease signing suddenly NOPE.
3. She hates the food.
4. She struggles with her phones—landline & cell.
5. Cannot figure out her TVs (Even got her a Flipper, ck out—only allows up/down scrolling of fav channels, volume and power).
and the big one…
6. The place isn’t living up to their contract... biweekly showering help, weekly laundry, encouraging social interaction.
I've had meetings with staff, nurses & director. Minimal improvement, then right back to problems.
I’m there 3-5 days a week. It’s just not working, and for the cost I’m EXTREMELY disappointed. My husband and I have decided she needs to move back in with us. I know she will be upset, but I need to know she is safe, eating and having her basic hygiene tended to. We updated our home 2 years ago for a 1st floor bedroom and full bath with walk in shower. Added a deck and separate door for her to sit outside.
I feel it’s the right thing, but I’m upset it will make her sad.
Any encouraging words?
I’m so relieved and happy!
thank you all for the suggestions and support
Good for Mom's cooperation, just wow.