My mother raised me as a dictator. I was beaten for real and imagined infractions and the motto was "do as I say, not as I do". Now my mother is not capable of any physical violence, but she is trying to control my 6 year old daughter the same way. I will NOT let my child grow up w/ the same spirit of fear that it has taken me 40 years to semi-overcome. How do I "honor my mother" and show her God's love in th situation?