I'm living with and caring for my 94 yr old mom, she's in good health but she keeps asking me the same questions over & over and gets mad if I go out at night, stays awake until I get home & calls me all the time when I'm out. She also wants to go with me whenever I mention I want to travel. Sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy. I lose my temper at her sometime too but she handles it well. I need a support group. I have a brother & SIL that she can stay with if I go away but she doesn't want to go there. Please help.
https://aaa1b.org/caregiver-resources/caregiver-support-groups/
Churches, long term care and day care facilities
Family caregiver alliance
Area Agency on Aging
https://www.caregiver.org/taxonomy/term/81?page=1
Alzheimer's Association
And you have found virtual support here.
As to "she doesn't want to go there". Life doesn't always render a choice in some matters. Sometimes you must do what YOU need to do. Not what she "wants". Unfortunately, the end of life isn't about it all being our own choice. Sometimes we have to do what works for the caregiver. While occ. our elders ACT like a two year old, they are NOT two years old, and even for two year olds, giving them whatever they want because they want it doesn't work and isn't good for them.