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Not that I know of. Often the "six pack" is a bit less expensive. These Board and Care homes are now rare as hen's teeth. They were often run by a family, would house about 6 people in often a large home, good family cooking, your own room, and less expensive than ALF. HOWEVER, I doubt SS would cover it. With only a SS income it is almost impossible to even keep up a paid for home given taxes on a home, upkeep and utilities in our day and age.
I honestly don't know what options might be. I would consider being roommates with another elder if you have a good friend.
There are still many board and care homes, they're "bigger" now since some states may allow them to have more residents.
As an example, in OH the maximum residents allowed is 16. Many of these places try to get at or near this number partly because of money. Those on SSI can get their stay covered by being part of the RSS (Residential State Supplement), which takes the bulk of their SSI (leaving them with $200) and combines this with what the state payment. The elder has to be referred by a social worker, and I believe a therapist as well? but not entirely sure.
As far as own room, more like shared room, especially if at the maximum allowable limit. As well, there could be with the limit say 2 full bathrooms for 16 residents to use.
Big home, yes, those who are housed upstairs if they can't do stairs well, then there is the stair lift for them to use.
Home cooked meal, yes, but residents on SNAP (whole home, probably), all their benefits go to feed the whole household.
Oh yes, many neighborhoods don't want a group home, so they tend to be in outlying areas of communities a good distance from public transit and walkable destinations (like grocery store, library etc). They also try to hide or blend in to the surroundings as much as possible so they don't come off as being a group home.
Your family run comment, did bring a chuckle. Being that NE OH is competitive as far as medical, there is competition among these homes for new residents, the same as other medical such as doctors, dentists, nursing homes, etc. The aforementioned suburb has a lot of older residents, it is a big suburb, so many of these businesses have made sure to have a location there.
I don't know if you have HUD in your area. The places that accept HUD they go on your income if you just have social security then what ever the place you can get with HUD its a 30% of your income. My brother only has social security and his apartment without HUD was $650 he only paid $340 and that was on a two bedroom the one bedroom would have only been $300. Some of HUD housing has people there to help out.
You might want to look into Medicaid and see if they can help you.
If you are a veteran, there are those on this site who will guide on working with the VA.
If not, you should consider an elder group home, or a faith-based facility because they see the care as a mission and are often supported by a larger state or national organization that provides part of the funding (my MIL is in one of those). You don't need to be part of that denomination or even a believer.
There is also section 8 housing, and find info on that through your county's social services website for elder care.
You can call social services and ask for an in-home assessment to see if you qualify for any services. Counties will often have inexpensive transportion services if you qualify.
Also contact your local Area Agency on Aging for more info and resources.
Make sure you have an assigned PoA who is willing, local, competent and a full generation younger than you. Otherwise the courts will assign you a legal guardian not of your own choosing (and in my own experience this was a good thing for my SFIL because they took care of him and gave him the care he needed).
No, there really are not any assisted living facilites, nursing homes, memory cares, or rehabs that are not outrageously expensive. Even the worst most disgusting place costs a fortune.
If you're low income you would qualify for Medicaid. If you have military benefits the VA can also help you find some assisted living at a veterans' home or privately.
Onlyavisitor in the comments is right. You may qualify for a special Medicaid waiver to help pay for assisted living. It depends on what state you are in. Medicaid may also help you with homecare.
Do you own a home? Do you have family who would be willing to move in and become your caregiver? Some states through their Medicaid programs have a family caregiver program where that person would get paid to llive with you and take care of you. You woud have lifetime use of your home and when you pass it would be sold and Medicaid collects whatever amount was paid out.
You have options. If you're considering somewhere 'faith-based' go with a Catholic establishent. I'm Jewish and I suggest this. I did care for a long time and the Catholic places are usually decent.
It depends on your definition of outrageous. Once you have depleted all your assets and only left with ss. There are many programs to pick up the difference. Talk to your health insurance provider they can give guidance to the agencies in your area.
Contact your local Augusta, GA Area Council of Aging of listings for assisted living within your income restrictions. Other readers in our forum offer great advice!
I would suggest contacting your local Social Services department and your states Department of Aging to help lead you in the right direction. Your state has specific criteria and this forum can not guide you because you did not provide that information. If you are only on Social Security you may qualify for several programs but you will need to take the initiative to make that first contact. I wish you luck.
In the King County area of Washington state there are many, many adult family homes (typically 6 residents and 2 caregivers). I do not think home owner's associations have the power to deny them...ours doesn't have the power to do so, and frankly they are typically very quiet (other than the occassional ambulance), so why would they? In my area, they do require that you self pay for 2 to 3 years, then many will allow folks to transition to Medicaid. My dad stayed in one for only 3 months, and it ended up costing around $8,000 a month, plus a huge amount for some separate nursing contract....I can't remember how much that was, or how long the contract was for.
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I honestly don't know what options might be. I would consider being roommates with another elder if you have a good friend.
It's very tough out there for many elderly.
There are still many board and care homes, they're "bigger" now since some states may allow them to have more residents.
As an example, in OH the maximum residents allowed is 16. Many of these places try to get at or near this number partly because of money. Those on SSI can get their stay covered by being part of the RSS (Residential State Supplement), which takes the bulk of their SSI (leaving them with $200) and combines this with what the state payment. The elder has to be referred by a social worker, and I believe a therapist as well? but not entirely sure.
As far as own room, more like shared room, especially if at the maximum allowable limit. As well, there could be with the limit say 2 full bathrooms for 16 residents to use.
Big home, yes, those who are housed upstairs if they can't do stairs well, then there is the stair lift for them to use.
Home cooked meal, yes, but residents on SNAP (whole home, probably), all their benefits go to feed the whole household.
Oh yes, many neighborhoods don't want a group home, so they tend to be in outlying areas of communities a good distance from public transit and walkable destinations (like grocery store, library etc). They also try to hide or blend in to the surroundings as much as possible so they don't come off as being a group home.
Your family run comment, did bring a chuckle. Being that NE OH is competitive as far as medical, there is competition among these homes for new residents, the same as other medical such as doctors, dentists, nursing homes, etc. The aforementioned suburb has a lot of older residents, it is a big suburb, so many of these businesses have made sure to have a location there.
You might want to look into Medicaid and see if they can help you.
Prayers you find something.
If not, you should consider an elder group home, or a faith-based facility because they see the care as a mission and are often supported by a larger state or national organization that provides part of the funding (my MIL is in one of those). You don't need to be part of that denomination or even a believer.
There is also section 8 housing, and find info on that through your county's social services website for elder care.
You can call social services and ask for an in-home assessment to see if you qualify for any services. Counties will often have inexpensive transportion services if you qualify.
Also contact your local Area Agency on Aging for more info and resources.
Make sure you have an assigned PoA who is willing, local, competent and a full generation younger than you. Otherwise the courts will assign you a legal guardian not of your own choosing (and in my own experience this was a good thing for my SFIL because they took care of him and gave him the care he needed).
If you're low income you would qualify for Medicaid. If you have military benefits the VA can also help you find some assisted living at a veterans' home or privately.
Onlyavisitor in the comments is right. You may qualify for a special Medicaid waiver to help pay for assisted living. It depends on what state you are in. Medicaid may also help you with homecare.
Do you own a home? Do you have family who would be willing to move in and become your caregiver? Some states through their Medicaid programs have a family caregiver program where that person would get paid to llive with you and take care of you. You woud have lifetime use of your home and when you pass it would be sold and Medicaid collects whatever amount was paid out.
You have options. If you're considering somewhere 'faith-based' go with a Catholic establishent. I'm Jewish and I suggest this. I did care for a long time and the Catholic places are usually decent.
Good luck to you.
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