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Okay so I haven't gone against her wishes ! Just making sure I'm doing the right thing ! My husband said the same exact thing as all of you !! But although my parents included religion in raising us ...we did not become members of church ,or attend on a regular basis to any church ,so that being said I just want advice that I'm not doing something wrong like sacrileges !! I know I sound dumb !!but I really am un knowing about this !!!All I want is for her to be peaceful and comfortable the poor little frail woman I thought maybe she'd find comfort with a chaplin ....
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BeckyT Jul 2019
Hold on a minute. Your Aunt in a Minister? That puts the whole debate in different light, don’t ya think?

My Father was a Minister. That would be so very very out of character for him - we would questioned it too - and likely would have brought his Pastor in anyway.
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Is seems a bit that the desire for the Chaplain is for yourselves. There is no shame with your aunt's wishes and honoring them shows self respect for this on your part.
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Why go against her wishes? It is part of HER exit plan, I would honor her wish. The day before my cousin died he told me to give one of his cars to a certain friend, another to another and some $$$ to two other friends, It was verbal, not in his will, I did it honored his wishes.
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I cannot believe you would want to go against her wishes at the end of her life. I am an atheist all my life; while I don't mind a friendly face stopping by, and have no problem whatsoever with my friends who DO believe, this is personal to me, in that I seem simply to be born without the slightest gene for belief. I would find it so offensive if someone did an override on my wishes just because I was finally helpless enough they could do so.
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If she doesn’t want to see a Chaplin, why would you go against her wishes? If the rest of the family needs comfort and to speak to a member of clergy, I would arrange for it to be done without your aunts presence.
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Does she not have a church and pastor of her own? Mom's minister tried to visit all his shut ins every month/6 weeks.
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