As some of you know my 95 yr. old mom is living with me (I am 72). She is bedridden. She defecates quite often and then smears it around, eats laying down and makes a mess. I can longer pick her up to change her bed, things are getting really tough on me and it's hard to call someone at a moments notice. The decision, my sister has offered to take her rather then putting her in a nursing home. Her problem, does not have the room, has a son that needs 24/7 and last year fought a battle with cancer, It's killing me to keep mom but killing me to think of sending her away and putting this on sis. Any input appreciated. Thank you, Loyalty