mom is 81 and is slowing down as any older person would. She wants to travel still but her health isn't the best. My brother recently went on a road trip with her. She was already sick when they left and she came down with pneumonia. He doesn't understand it takes older people a lot longer to recover. Now they are already planning another trip soon. How can I get it through his head this is not a good choice and he needs to say no sometimes.