My father had a stroke 20 years ago and at 87 can barely stand. He needs assistance daily to get out of bed, toilet, bathe, and move around. He spends most of his time sitting and watching tv. He has no cognitive impairment or memory issues. My mom is self sufficient. They currently live on a nice one bedroom apartment in an ALF, but ADL support is not offered unless he goes to stay in a special rehab wing.
It would be great if we could find them a place that offers in-apartment ADL support on a 24/7 basis, so they could enjoy an apartment-style home, with the onsite care my father needs throughout the day. Do such places exist? They are in the Chicago area! In the northern suburbs.
I just have them come in 2X a day to give my mom meds. But I could have additional help all the way up to a 24/7 caregiver in her apartment. So yes, those kinds of support are available.