My dad has fallen and broken both hips in the last 2 years and my mom has had Parkinson's disease for last 15 years. My brother and I finally got mom in a nursing home. Dad is still at home, but lost his driver's license 3 months ago. His memory is getting worse, borderline dementia, but refuses to accept any help. He is still at home and takes senior citizen bus to visit mom. On almost a daily basis, he calls the police station or goes down to DMV to try to get license back. He's taken all the tests & failed, they've told him no, my brother and I have said no, but he won't drop it. I understand losing his memory is not under his control, but he's starting to get nasty to everyone. We've cried, yelled and pleaded and nothing works. He refuses to move into the nursing home with mom. I cry every day, can't sleep and can't concentrate on work. It's sad to say, but I can't see living like this the next couple of years. What can I do?