I have a really strange question. My husband who has dementia wears Depend 24/7. The type that he uses can handle “maximum” wetness, but he always overflows it despite going to the bathroom every 3 hrs as recommended by the neurologist. I decided to insert pads inside the Depend for additional protection. Here is the weird part: when the pad gets fully wet, it spills out on to his clothes when it cannot absorb anymore. The cotton lining inside the Depend itself is always dry. It does not absorb the overflow. I feel I am wasting my money buying both the Depend and the extra pads when only one does the absorption - and neither can do the job fully by itself. I don’t know what I am doing wrong.
Now, I will look into other brands you suggested.
I'm thinking the liners are conductors, it's going straight through but I have seen these used well. Is there another brand to try?
You are doing a hard job indeed & deserve recognition.