We live in a 2 BR apt and my spouse and i live in different bedrooms ages 73 ND 65. We have both been seriously ill for years. He lived alone on 3 separate occassions, but did poorly. My spouse wants us to be alone. He is on SSDI and receives 1200/month. He does drive, room rentals here are about 500month for a decent place. He is physically in fair shape, but has no stamina and is malnouruished due to cystic fibrosis. What are his options
Perhaps a county social worker could help him identify ways to get job training (as I suspect that he's not working) for someone with his disabilities and grow into a self sustaining adult who's not dependent on his parents. It isn't a healthy situation for either of you.
This post offers unsettling and troubling insight into what could happen when an adult child doesn't grow into adulthood and find his (or her) own way:
https://www.agingcare.com/questions/How-can-I-plan-for-the-care-of-my-son-after-my-death-187138.htm