Hello, new to the forum and need input. My mom is currently in a
Skilled nursing facility for physical therapy.
She was hospitalized 8 days for severe hyponatremia 3/15-3/22, then sent to rehab. On 3/26 during a therapy session, she got shaky, was sent back to the hospital. Spent another 7 days recovering from a UTI and 'hospital induced delirium'. Do nursing facilities have to inform family members of her plan of care or share progress reports? My sister & I have never voluntarily been informed about anything regarding mom's care. I visit daily, call her several times a day. Made several attempts to get information, but no luck. Her nurse verbally told me what meds she's taking & lab results, only after I asked 3 times. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you
letter was the very first document in her chart. The NH complied with my request. I hope this information is helpful.
I would make a call so you can be part of the care plan meeting and express what you and your sister expectations are. With you being there every day - You should make sure anyone you meet in moms care knows this as well as make notes and tape them up in her room for times that you are not there (I now always have paper and tape in my bag).
From my experience I have had to really just be blunt and firm. “I am involved in every aspect of her care” and expected everything to be discussed with me. I wanted them to call me with anything and it wasn’t a bother - I pretty much had to say that I wanted them to bother me with everything. I do have POA as well as health care proxy so I was able to do so.
Our last hospital stay for UTI (with delirium due to the antibiotics) they would actually try (before I got there in the morning) to act like they talked to mom already. As we all know - someone with delirium “cannot discuss their medical health or care”.
If you do not have POA and health care proxy - try to have your mom do them up as soon as possible.
My other advice from experience is be careful with which antibiotics are used for UTIs. If you mom experienced delirium on the serve side with the ones she was just on then Make a note on exactly which one she was recently treated with.
My mom has a Severe reaction to a few of the cephalosporins class antibiotics last year and it is the “GO TO “ antibiotic for uti. We have since had to use different types and she has a much easier time - nothing like the reactions to the cephalosporins class. I would never had thought an antibiotic could cause such horrific side effects and it scared the heck out of me - I have since learned to be vocal and put cephalosporins in her allergies so she is never given them again.
Hoping you can speak with her team at rehab and they understand that you and your sister do want to be involved and they see that as a positive :)
The Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (HIPAA) was developed to protect a patient's release of medical information except to those designated by the patient. The patient can also decline release of information to anyone beyond those directly involved in her health care. When a patient presents for treatment anywhere, HIPPA forms are presented to patient to complete. It requires your mother's signature, with those allowed to receive information listed. In the circumstance she is not competent, whoever consented to her admission can receive whatever they want to know.
https://www.hhs.gov/hipaa/for-professionals/privacy/guidance/access/index.html
You mother has to give permission by signing forms saying that her medical information can be discussed with you.
I also had a stack of papers to review and sign when mom entered the NH for rehab.
Later, there will be meetings with the social worker and staff (PT and OT) to discuss progress.
Your situation is different due to your mom returning to the hospital.
Ask your mom if she filled out the necessary paperwork.
Best wishes to you and your family. I hope your mom starts to improve soon.
However, since Mom is competent, the facility doesn't always call me regarding what is happening with her. There has been 4 or 5 Directors in the 3 years she's lived there. I had great relationship with 2 of them and they kept me informed, knowing mom would forget to call me. The newest one hasn't been broken in yet - and since she isn't a nurse like the last three there is now another layer added.
However before my father died - he'd been moved to the the SNF where there were meetings every 90 days re his care. I again was the one called as I was his agent as well. Again, my brother, husband, mom and I were listed on who was able to get information. I was the one they called when he fell - which was weekly. SNF at the community my parents live in (mom is in AL) was not all that great and dad wouldn't have stayed there but for mom being able to visit him anytime she wished. If mom ever needs SNF it will not be at this one. The point is, make sure everyone the family wishes to get information is listed on the appropriate paperwork.
HIPAA laws are very strict.
Make sure you are on each and every form as someone that they can give info to.
She should have a POA for medical and financial decisions if/when she can not make decisions for herself.
And without POA if it gets to the point where she can not make decisions for herself you or another family member might have to obtain Guardianship in order to make the necessary decisions. (unless she has a husband then he legally can make decisions for her both financial and health)
Are you your mom's health proxy and/or has she signed a HIPAA form allowing you to be privy to her health care information?
In several instances, my mom was informed of medical information while in rehab; she would forget to tell us or misunderstand what they were telling her.
This caused lots of anguish and misunderstanding between us and staff.
In most facilities, the Director of Nursing (DON) is the queen bee of the facility. S/he and the facility Social Worker are the folks you get AND GIVE information to and from.
Talking to regular staff (the folks who do the front line care) is important but won't get you the official information.
A good care plan meeting will have the DON, SW, Unit Manager and therapists in attendence, some by phone. Come with a list of questions.
If you are interested in transitioning mom to long term care, now is the time to bring that up at the meeting.