My father has dementia the meds have him ouy there. but he has to be on them or he will go after my mom for cheating on him while walking the dog [the dog died 31 yrs ago]. so even though hes kind of out of it . what would be good to do for him on fathers day
past, and the focus on him as a good n special dad. Adjust the environment to his functioning that day. If he becomes upset, calm things down, if he's groggy
play some music from his era at a moderate volume.
If dad is sleeping all the time on the (psych?) med's. You might want to talk to doc about that. If pm dose, taking a little earlier may help, or doc might want dose adjustment or trial of another med. Hopefully by working w prescriber, you can together find a balance between paranoia and missing out on life. Also, sometimes may just need a longer time to get used to med's-you didn't say how long this has been going on or exactly what you meant by "out of it", hope I got your intending meaning!