paper work required. One thing we're having trouble with is they require a death certificate of her husbands deceased wife. Of course mom's husband is deceased as well. We can't locate the certificate and have called all vital records for info. If we don't find it, she will not qualify for financial help from VA. She was buried in Rockville MD and have checked with Maryland. District of Columbia won't even check for us, we're not immediate relatives.Does anyone have suggestions. Desperate for help.
Is there anyone in her family that you can talk to? Her doctor and the funeral home has to have this info. A relative must have a copy as well. Did she have children? This would be my first suggestion.
If you have someone who is computer savvy, they could search online. Anything public should be accessible.
If all else fails, gather all the information you have on her and hire a private investigator - should not be that expensive. They also know how to locate this info.
good luck