We're accumulating a lot of clear x-rays and CAT scans at the local hospital. I'm thinking of asking the MC to call me to come see him BEFORE they ship him off by ambulance. Last night we spent 6 hours in the busy ER in the hallway between a young heroin addict with serious medical issues and an older cocaine addict who kept wandering around touching all the other patients. During all that time, I was trying to keep my husband lying on a hospital bed because he wasn't in any pain and couldn't remember from one minute to the next where he was or what was happening. Any advice?
A few times, my mother complained the next day of pain in her arm or leg or whatever, so her PA ordered the traveling xray team to come to the MC to take an image; nothing was ever broken (believe it or not) in any of her falls. Early on in the AL, she broke a couple of ribs and a sternum bone or two, but she never pressed the call button for help, so the staff didn't know she'd fallen (she was able to get herself back up alone). During an admission for pneumonia, she had a CT scan and that's when the broken bones were discovered, in various stages of healing! Even if they were discovered during the actual fall, however, nothing could have been done for her in the ER b/c those bones aren't set in any way and just left to heal by themselves.
Good luck; I know how awful the whole situation is when a loved one falls.
So at the Care Plan meeting we agreed that if they could treat mom on site, UTI’s, etc, she would not go to the ER.
I was told when Mom went to skilled nursing that they do not send residents out every time they fall. If they hit their head, yes, out they go. Otherwise, they observe the person.
I know, its a catch 22, damned if you do and damned if you don't. What if this fall "is" serious. I took on that responsibility. They do not go with the resident and I was the one that sat there, in an uncomfortable chair, for 3 to 4 hours.
While you are talking about falls with the administration, ask about their protocols for protecting people at high risk for falls. Every facility with population at risk of falling will have one. See if it includes: increased observation, low beds, mats by side of bed, call bell within reach, frequent toileting...
I think it is absurd to send someone to the ER JUST because they fell. My MILs sister used to get mad when she didn't call 911 when she fell. Then I'd go sit with her for hours and hours cuz it takes bloody hell forever at the ER even when they are NOT busy and she would whine and complain about being there so long. We finally got her trained that 911 was for actual emergencies. If you hit your head, are bleeding profusely or in major pain (after a few minutes not from the initial fall), then call 911. Instead, call us and we'll help you evaluate if medical intervention is needed.
It would be nice if MC could do something like that too! There is way too much cover-your-butt type of decisions made for patients. They are often expensive, time consuming and unnecessary.
Definitely let your wishes be known ASAP. Hopefully something can change. Also agree with other posters to brainstorm with facility to see if they have any ideas on WHY he is falling and if there is anything that can be done to help in that department.
The nursing home suggested that they thoroughly exam him and then call us with their findings and ask us if we wanted him transported.
We would have lived at ER! Ask your nursing home to set up the same system.
Unattended falls, instead of auto transport would be assessed by EMT. They let me talk to EMTs and I make the call to transport or not.
Now she is on hospice, and they are called to assess if necessary; haven't seen how that goes yet, she hasn't had a fall since we started hospice recently. She does have a DNR.
Its not that I don't want her treated for an acute injury, but the whole ambulance ER thing is so traumatizing for her, that it's often not in her best interest. And one time she was transported for an unattended fall, because she was complaining about her leg, and I was concerned about her hip. Hip was fine, but she had broken ribs!
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