I care for an elderly friend 24/7. We recently had a visit from a medical social worker who had questions about her adult children, among other things. My friend proceeded to tell the SW that her daughter had her mortgage her house and does not pay, my friend does. Part of her medical issues is not having enough money to get medical care. When asked about her son, she told the SW he lives downstairs. He does not pay rent or contribute in any way. This too is costing her a lot in utilities, real estate tax (disqualified from tax relief) and groceries and unpaid various loans. Isn't this SW mandated to report this?
Just wondering if she'll get assistance with this problem, or does she have to come out and file a complaint herself? I know she'd never do that but I do feel she told the SW about this for a reason.
I was just wondering how the process works is all..thanks
We are not heartless, but realistic. Many of us have been caregivers for a very long time, and have experienced quite a bit in terms of dealing with the governmental and local agencies for the elderly. None of them will step into this situation until financial abuse is proven. If no one is able to prove it, or the elderly person isn't complaining about it or asking for help, then there's nothing to be investigated. The OP didn't state that the elderly person in question has dementia or Alz., so we are left to assume that she is still of sound mind. Being elderly does NOT mean you are unable to manage your financial affairs in all cases.