We have been trying to talk to the in laws regarding MIL memory issues and progression. As soon as it's discussed they forget or cancel appt. with PCP. Her PCP did adjust the blood pressure medicine but that has not helped with memory or dementia. Who can test her? They are enrolled in Federal Retiree coverage and don't know if a referral is needed for specialist. Worried since our visit we noted the issue is taboo with her but FIL agrees that she is worse but just lost where to turn. Any ideas? Wyoming area agency on aging or where to look for guidance?