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(((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))) No, you are not wrong. You have been abused and that abuse by your sibs continues. You have to look after yourself. Please stop beating yourself up. You have done a lot for your family aand have nio need toi feelk guilty. It is time to look after you. I am so sorry that you feel you may not see your mum agai, especially as she is your best friend, but the alternative seems impossible. Were there no community resources to help you look after her? Have you looked into those? I am ot suggesting that you should take your mum back, as I see that it is too much for you, but to reassure yourself that there is no way you could take on that job again./ Are you in counselling/therapy? I would think that would help you come to terms with this. It certainly is a very difficult situation. I certainly encourage you to look after yourself. Thngs do not always stay the same, so you may be able to find out your mum's adress, and /or establish contact with her again in the future. Meanwhile you need to look after you. I may not see my mum again - not for the same reasons -she is narcissistic and abusive herself, but I know, stil, it isn't easy. More ((((((((hugs)))))))) and keep in touch Joan
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Wow..I wished I had some answers for you hun, but I will pray for you and the situation. Keep your chin up..it sounds like distancing you from those who manipulated you is best for you. I'm sorry about you and your mom. Don't beat yourself up though..you have to think about you right now. Unless your mom is being mistreated then give it time. If you think there is abuse involved with your mom...call the APS (Adult Protective Services) in your area. God Bless..my prayers are with you.
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