I am POA of my mom. She lives with me. My mom has a couple insurance policies and burial policy. I need these documents. I need them to apply for Medicaid to get help paying for adult day care for mom. I also need them to get help for one of her medication that she gets from the company.y sister refuses to give them to me. Says I have no right to them. Said my request for them was dumb. Myim also write out funeral arrangements and my sister took that out of my.moms house too. My mom doesn't remember writing these out but wants to make a new one. I have asked my sister several times. How do I go about getting the document fromy sister? I can have new funeral BC arrangements made out per moms request, but how do I get my sister to hand these things over?