my friend parent are in the upper 80 and nintys one has full blown altiheimer and the other has too take care of her and he is 90. My friend is ex- military and needs help the whole family does mentally and money. They need to put her in a home but money is very low what is out there for them.
Hopefully, all will work out. You are a good friend and your help will be so appreciated - it is an involved process and I wish you well. Take care.
I am sorry to hear about your friend and their mom. The financial aspects of aging and care giving are a problem for many people these days. Unfortunately, there is no easy way around this. The following articles might be able to give you some insight and hopefully help you with you friends situation.
Check out our special Veterans Assistance section to find out aid and assistance or benefits information.
https://www.agingcare.com/Veterans-Assistance
Good Luck,
Karie H.