Hospital refusal to admit, I left father there, I'm only son and POA. His brothers will not take him in, abused them as kids. He is broke.

I have been dealing with my father who is diagnosed with dementia and Alzheimer's. Its getting worse. He has been living in my home in my living room. His bedroom is my living room. Small two bedroom house. Me, my wife and my daughter. I have been fighting with Medicaid since I brought him into my house in July when his second wife died. He only has SS, no savings. She died leaving him broke. Trailer had no working plumbing, no working water, no HVAC, trash everywhere, dirty clothes, mold on the furniture, and at least a years bed bug infestation. Getting the trailer condemned. Cannot get a title, state shows a lien on it. Medicaid has been giving the run around since July. Looking to get the full Medicaid to get the Aged and Disabled Waiver to get reduced rent in assisted living. No answer on why he has not approved. Medicaid basically told me to sit and spin. CICOA left me high and dry and refused to assist because he smoothed talked them into thinking he is fine. I have Blanket and Medical POA. I WILL NOT BE HIS GUARDIAN.

My wife took him to the grocery Friday 1/24/2020 and to get his smokes. Within 15 minutes of getting his smokes, he forgot that he had bought them. Wife showed them to him. 15 minutes after that he lost control of his bodily functions and deficated himself while in the store, did not know until he stated he felt it fill his pants. He walked himself to the rest room to do what he needed to do. He came home and took a shower, he refuses to bathe first shower in months (maybe, we heard water running but his smell was still there). We allowed him to go to sleep and planned to take him to the ER on 1/25/2020. My father woke up at around noon on 1/25/2020. We let him drink his coffee and eat breakfast and let him smoke. I told him that I was aware of what happened at the grocery (he could not recall) and we needed to get him checked at the hospital. He refused me but when my wife asked, he agreed. We drove to the ER. I checked him in stating that "My father has been having Cognitive Behavior Episodes and about the events of last night and needed to be seen. I stated all that had happened this week. I also stated that I was no longer able to care for him as he was a danger to himself and others. He was taken to the ER Room promptly. This was around 1pm. I talked with the nursing staff after he was settled. Told them the same information with the addition of him refusing to allow me to put together his meds and he admitted to missing 2 to three days of meds. During the check in, he could not tell the nurse what year it was. Said that they would relay this to the ER doc on call. The ER doc came in, talked directly asking him questions. I asked the ER doc to come outside. I asked him if he had read ANY notes prior to coming in. He stated he did not and would not till after he talked with my dad. I explained what was going on, stated the same stuff, I stated once again that he is a danger to himself and others, I can no longer care for him, he needs help I can no longer provide. I even said call the social worker, call APS, call the police, I can no longer care for him as he is a danger to himself and others. He walked away stating he would do what he needed to do. We were there from 1pm till 5pm. Staff Social Worker came him, told her the same info I had told the check in, the nurses, the doc. She kinda huffed and walked away. She came back later stating that there was nothing medically to keep him here, I WAS going to take him home and call the assisted living place back myself and tell them what they needed to do. I told her once again that he cannot and will not go home with me and that he was a danger to himself and others. I am not able to provide proper care anymore. I gathered my stuff and left the building. I was told by professionals to admit him with Cognative Behaviors and share I cannot care for him due to the danger to him and others. I did email the PCP today to make him aware. What happens to him & I?