My sibling has full financial control of my parents' care in AL and SIL does appointments outside as needed. Problem, she constantly complains about their depression, their cleanliness, their desire for outings, store etc. She refuses to do. We live in different states, I recently toured a facility near me to relocate them as I don’t work and did their care totally prior to my Dad's hip fx, but they talked them out of it.
I offer to try and get shut out, unless I comply and move to where they are, which I will not do, I have health issues, disabled, etc.
Every time I ask about anything it’s an act of congress.
I’ve been told by so many people to just let it go, but they’re MY PARENTS 😢
i have twi AI illnesses and have cared for my parents for years. Dad is gone but tryst me, my health suffered. One sister pays a week visit every couple if months and believe me, I appreciate being able to not have to visit as much and just getting a break.
mom is bedridden but prior to that she and Dad enjoyed going to the dining room etc. thank God there was a van to go to medical appts. I went with them and they could accommodate the wheelchairs.
make the call and ask how you can help