I manage her money and see that her bills are paid. My mom was never good with money and stayed in the hole all the time, since I took over she is good. She is at the stage that she does not care about money and thinks she has an endless supply. What do I need to do to get her help and set it up where she cannot spend on a whim? My daughter wants her to come live with her so she can help her since she doesn't work right now, but my mom refuses even though she is not able to do it all herself. Her house is a mess and she sees things as a little out of place. It has gotten nasty and she refuses to let us throw anything away. What can I do?