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The actual day of the move can be very stressful. Can he stay with a relative while you make his new space almost identical to to his favorite space before? His favorite chair?
Thanks for the clarification. Sounds like a wise decision. It also seems as if you're already on the right track, getting your husband used to the idea.
Do you have another city/place, etc in mind? If so, could you show him photos of the area, things to do, especially those that might interest him, so that you can help him generate enthusiasm for the move?
Eg., if he enjoys nature, walking and parks, locate the state or county parks in the area and print out information from their websites, let him review it and try to think of activities that the two of you can do together.
Some areas have free concerts during the summer, and some have them in the winter as well. I've found that the United Methodist Churches in this area are good sources for summer concerts. Libraries and city parks are as well. If you both enjoy outdoor concerts (and perhaps a small picnic lunch), you could discuss going to some of these activities so he begins to look forward to them.
If you'll be closer to relatives, perhaps they can get involved as well and suggest activities that you can all do together.
Maybe a trip to the area might help? Stop for lunch at a nice place he'll enjoy so you're already creating and building new memories for the new place.
I guess what I'm thinking might really help is to find ways for him to be enthusiastic about the move and all that he'll be able to do once you've moved and try to turn any anxiety into anticipation.
Do you have a couple of friends that can come a couple of days a week to help? If one of them can help you sort through things and pack one room at a time, and the other sits with your husband and visits, and can do the lunch making, etc.....this will make your life so much easier. Do you have some family that can help? Enlist their help to get boxes, storage tubs, etc. Sort your belongings into 5 catagories: Trash, Donate, Garage Sale, Give to relatives, and Keep to move with.
With the clutter removed, it will be so easy to get your house listed and sold. A lot of people have written that being free of clutter and extra possessions takes a lot of stress away from our lives.
I can't continue taking care of our home. There are too many decisions to make, too much upkeep. The hubs understands we'll be moving, but he doesn't want to, because this is familiar ground. I need to sell before we move, but we haven't put it on the market yet. I'm getting him used to the idea right now. He's in the "moderate" stage. Way past "mild." Not close to "severe."
More questions as well.... And what's the purpose of the move? What stage of Alz does your husband have? Is he able to understand that you'll be moving?
Need more information. Are you already in the process? Where are you moving to? If you live in a home, are you putting it on the market before you move? Need to sell it before your move?
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
Do you have another city/place, etc in mind? If so, could you show him photos of the area, things to do, especially those that might interest him, so that you can help him generate enthusiasm for the move?
Eg., if he enjoys nature, walking and parks, locate the state or county parks in the area and print out information from their websites, let him review it and try to think of activities that the two of you can do together.
Some areas have free concerts during the summer, and some have them in the winter as well. I've found that the United Methodist Churches in this area are good sources for summer concerts. Libraries and city parks are as well. If you both enjoy outdoor concerts (and perhaps a small picnic lunch), you could discuss going to some of these activities so he begins to look forward to them.
If you'll be closer to relatives, perhaps they can get involved as well and suggest activities that you can all do together.
Maybe a trip to the area might help? Stop for lunch at a nice place he'll enjoy so you're already creating and building new memories for the new place.
I guess what I'm thinking might really help is to find ways for him to be enthusiastic about the move and all that he'll be able to do once you've moved and try to turn any anxiety into anticipation.
With the clutter removed, it will be so easy to get your house listed and sold. A lot of people have written that being free of clutter and extra possessions takes a lot of stress away from our lives.