My dad is 96 years old and basically chair-bound because of degenerative disk disease. I can manage him in the house and transition him to the bathroom, bed, etc., but I cannot get him into or out of the car without some major obstacles. He lives with me, but it is just the 2 of us most of the time. I've tried a Hoya-like lift, but it doesn't work well for us. I have a "Slide-n-Ride" which is manageable, but still very difficult. I've tried to move him like the videos online that show proper technique, but he weighs about 170 lbs., and I can't physically move him. I use a slide sheet, and I've tried a transfer board, but nothing works well. I just want him to be able to get out of the house and see people and scenery. He's always been very social, but his poor physical condition is affecting his mood and frame of mind, and he needs to get out a little. Has anyone tried anything that works for them? Surely I'm not the only one with this issue. Are there resources available?
Can you get a home PT or OT visit? This was arranged for one relative when I was having trouble & it really helped. Worked out what was still possible.
I must admit, since then, I have given up transporting two relatives in my car as they need more than I can do.
Now it's a 'walk' outside in a wheelchair or wheelchair taxi.
If it were me I would contact his doctor and ask for an order for physical therapy. The therapist really helped me understand how to help my parents getting in and out of a ca. Neither had the challenges your dad deals with though my mom did have a fractured back once and we did manage.
You’ve inspired me to take my aunt out more.
I hope someone has some great tips for you.