I recently had a baby in my thirties. My great aunt who is 74 would always tell everyone in the family that I wasn’t going to have kids because if I was I would've had them by now and I have been sent here to look after her.
I previously visited her twice a week. We have a huge family, so she is always with someone and she has a live-in boyfriend. She has recently been checked by a doctor and she has no dementia or physical problems.
It all started when I was 6 months pregnant she decided she had to be with me all day every day and when she couldn’t she had to be on the phone to me constantly. She keeps saying she’s has no one, which is not true. She lies about people visiting her to make it look true. She makes up false emergencies to get me to go round. She says she is suicidal and the only thing that will help is if I take her out in the car everyday to cheer her up. And she wants me to buy her flowers. I have a newborn baby and have had a c-section so can’t walk or drive. She lives 10 mins away and walks to my house trying to get in my house everyday. My husband tells her I’m in bed recovering, which is true. She bombards me with phone calls all day.
I have a huge family and they have been with her everyday but she doesn’t want them she only wants me?
How do I make this stop? Please help!
Stand firm. So glad your husband runs interference if she shows up.
When people live their life having others give and share and help, they get dependent on it. She is being unreasonable. Stand firm