I'm the only person who cares for my mother who suffers from dementia. This is 24 hrs care in my home. How do you deal with being burned out especially now with the locked down?
Also how do you entertain an Alzheimer's patient on an hourly basis so you could have some free times? I usually play music or turn on the TV and play shows but she gets bored and wants me to sit next to her, otherwise she walks away! Any suggestions?
Have you considered respite care?
Have you considered calling a family meeting and asking the other siblings to help?
Try reaching out to Alzheimers.org. They can help out with your situation. They even provide financial resources
GOOD LUCK!!
Definitely fine a way to "self care". your burn out will not help your mother
1st- for your mom, to relieve some of the burden from you. (See suggestions made above.)
2nd- and Equally Important-for your own sanity**. You are already burned out. Call someone for support. Any friends or family ? Neighbors or other associates ? 24/7 care of someone with dementia is too much for any one person. And the current Covid stress and restrictions only intensify that. Self care is essential. Professional mental health services may also help you with coping skills. When I was spending much time and energy caring for my mom, a counselor (for me) was very helpful. Finding the “right one” may take some trials but it’s worth it. Just begin. There are also caregiver support groups, but probably not in person now if you are in a lockdown area.
You'll also find some good literature here on this site about caregiving issues, and tips. Keep reaching out, as you did by writing here. Best of luck !
I wish you luck. You can't do this alone!!!
If you further injure yourself caring for her, or become ill from being over-burdened and burnt out, will she be better off?
Please, save your sanity and get some time off. Find a caring person who cam watch TV, do simple puzzles or coloring with her.
When COVID 19 restrictions are lifted, will you be able to access an adult day center for her?
Have you been in touch with your local Area Agency on Aging to find out what resources are available?