She is capable but we believe her memory may fail her while driving and an accident may occur. She is 96 and has memory issues. She is determined to keep driving and says she will know when she can no longer drive. I believe her but my siblings has seen behavior that says she really isn't able.
So the day of the appointment I went in with my dad and a few minutes into the appointment the Dr. brought up the driving issue and suggested that my dad relinquish his privilege to drive (that's how the Dr. put it). My dad was a little stunned but in my mind I was doing back flips.
My dad never drove again.
Make the Dr. the bad guy. Put if off on him/her.