I have been caring for my husband for 18 years, although the last 3 have been the worst. I am so tired of cleaning his toilet, his butt, helping him up and down, in and out of the car, going to endless doctor appts, etc.
He has too many ailments, bad liver, Parkinsons, diabetes, walks poorly with walker. The last week has been the worst. He has problems turning around, it’s like his right leg is stuck to the floor. I dont know where to turn? Right now I’m waiting for doctor to call with lab results. I’m hoping for a UTI so he can get antibiotics and hopefully get better. I feel my own health going down the tubes. I’m 69, just retired in April, and want to be able to do things for myself! Don’t know where to turn!!
You know Cardell, if you don’t look out for yourself, no one else will. It may be time for you to be a little selfish. A lot of facilities will give you a week of respite free of they think you’ll place your loved one there. Or, since your husband is a Veteran, maybe it’s time to investigate the VA for placement. Only you can decide what’s truly important to you and how much more you are willing to sacrifice for him.