After 15+ years of actively observing my mom's alcoholism, I finally attended Al-Anon. And I bawled the first time I opened my mouth to talk. It was so nice being around people who don't pity me! They've all been through similar stuff, and they just all nodded at my story in the way only someone with the same experience could. I feel so seen, heard, and respected.
If you are dealing with an alcoholic in your life, go to al-anon. I've wasted so much time waiting.
Her husband refuses to go, and every time there's a crisis with their daughter, he loses his mind and falls apart. My friend has learned coping techniques, has detached emotionally from her daughter's choices, and is in a much better place mentally than her husband.
God bless you.
Now, move forward-
Congratulations!
I’m so glad that you went.
May your healing begin....