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He gets very agitated mostly when dealing with my grandmother who has severe myositis and is in a wheelchair. I’ve seen both of them argue which I can understand (one time they had a big fight and he left to stay with my aunt and uncle and she was left alone the next day). My mom did suggest they get help (I don’t think they will take any kind of help whether it is anger management for grandpa or like a support group for people who have Myositis which my grandmother is in but rarely participates). We’re going to Disney in October and my grandmother will stay here with relatives and the woman who comes every week to help her and I’m concerned that he will be like this when we’re at Disney since I don’t think he’s taking anything medication related. (When he was angry today I kept calm and told him to calm down and breathe but he did not take my advice). Obviously, the next step for my grandmother is either getting assistance at night (my grandfather has to help her into bed every single night) or living in an elderly group home which obviously will change both of their lives but I don’t think that is an issue right now.

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I’m sorry that things haven’t changed since your last posts. That’s very sad. Is GMA still peeing in cups? According to what you wrote in those posts, Grandma is ill (with mental and physical issues) and needy and Grandpa spends 95% of his life stressed and anxious, trying to take care of Grandma. None of them wants to be messed with. Your family pitches in as much as they are allowed to, but G & G don’t really accept much help. I hope you won’t spend your wonderful vacation at Disney stressed and worried about them. But, it doesn’t sound like there’s much you can really do. Things will play out for them however they will.
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