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Some additional thoughts on different services available: There's respite care, visiting nurses, Day programs, etc. Each family and situation is unique. Sounds like your Mom and Dad each have needs to be addressed. Take care of you, as well.
How can we help? Not that we wouldn't if we could, but what can we do? I mean, we can't investigate, go to their house, or listen in on their conversations...and outsiders don't really know the whole story. You know them better than anyone. What do your siblings say? Their Physician?
In my family, Mom told me one day that Dad has Alzheimer's. That was about the extent of the conversation. My sister told me to read books on the subject. It took a while before I did, seeing no immediate need. We thought Dad was a bit quirky, and Mom, mean, irrational, and same-o-same o.
Then Mom started calling more often, saying, "Dad is threatening to hit me." Or, "He's breaking things..." And when I'd visit, sure enough, Dad was threatening, and yelling, and slamming doors more. But I also found that she was hitting him~while driving! And screaming at him, while driving. Lots of crazy things were happening, and so I had to act. In fact the craziness got worse, until Dad finally had to be institutionalized. He's doing much better now, and is in a great nursing home, and his needs are adequately cared for.
Point being, maybe there really is abuse going on. It's entirely possible. But you can't magically make it go away, and we can't really help, being outsiders and not really knowing the whole story. They probably won't get better on their own. It usually doesn't work that way, and there's no answers that will change it, unless your Mom or Dad have help and intervention. And there's lots of avenues for that. Check with Senior Services in your area, and follow their recommendations, or with their Physician. I went to their church's care support personnel, who had seen some problems, and suggested some resources. That's what you need, too. You may want to start with prayer.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
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If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
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This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
In my family, Mom told me one day that Dad has Alzheimer's. That was about the extent of the conversation. My sister told me to read books on the subject. It took a while before I did, seeing no immediate need. We thought Dad was a bit quirky, and Mom, mean, irrational, and same-o-same o.
Then Mom started calling more often, saying, "Dad is threatening to hit me." Or, "He's breaking things..." And when I'd visit, sure enough, Dad was threatening, and yelling, and slamming doors more. But I also found that she was hitting him~while driving! And screaming at him, while driving. Lots of crazy things were happening, and so I had to act. In fact the craziness got worse, until Dad finally had to be institutionalized. He's doing much better now, and is in a great nursing home, and his needs are adequately cared for.
Point being, maybe there really is abuse going on. It's entirely possible. But you can't magically make it go away, and we can't really help, being outsiders and not really knowing the whole story. They probably won't get better on their own. It usually doesn't work that way, and there's no answers that will change it, unless your Mom or Dad have help and intervention. And there's lots of avenues for that. Check with Senior Services in your area, and follow their recommendations, or with their Physician. I went to their church's care support personnel, who had seen some problems, and suggested some resources. That's what you need, too. You may want to start with prayer.