I'm mom and dad's fulltime caregiver and my dad refuses to sign a caregiver contract or agreement. I'm only paid $300/wk in Honolulu, Hawaii where it's so expensive and I have no real spending money.
I moved back home to Hawaii from Australia and left my wife there to continue her job. My mom want's to leave the house to me so I'm caregiving for 2 years to get on the title of the house. What exactly do I need as documentation and ID and any other things to be put on the title?
My father is a very stubborn man and refuses to sign a caregivers contract and he doesn't agree to put me on the title even if he dies. The durable POA states that both my sister and I have POA if one or the other can't care for them but I have a nurse aid certificate and Prometric certificate.
I've already been caregiving for 1 year and another year to go. My question is how does the family caregiver go thru the process of being put on the title of the house?
Thank God that it was so peaceful for her.
I don't want to sound unsympathetic, but if you're getting $300 a week and you're living rent-free it all begins to look a bit different.
Is part of your father's problem that he has always expected your parents' estate to be divided equally between you and your sister?
Does dad fear you will kick him out someway if you are put on title to home? I know when my parents first did their will they placed my oldest brother as the executor. Well dad and son can’t get along to save their life. His fear is that if mom dies, the oldest will kick him out and take over.
It sounds like mom wants one thing and dad wants another. You should not get into the middle.
Again. Go home.