I didn't do this much for my own mother. Take to all MD appts, address medical issues with all docs, grocery shop, listen to her lies when I ask questions - tells me what she thinks I want to hear. Refuses to go to assisted living (she has no family) and get a life alert necklace. Lives alone in a 2 story townhouse - can barely walk. Uses walker and cane. Came home from her house in tears today. Looking for help....
Call APS for their assistance/social worker. And no guilt!